Fulfillment: It’s a YOU problem.

Fulfillment is on YOUR raquet. It’s a YOU problem.

Your job, does NOT owe it to you to fulfill you. Your job gives you a paycheck. Hopefully, you enjoy what you do, do your best and find fulfillment in your try, in building relationships with your peers and leadership.

Your family, does NOT owe you their lives to fulfill your every hope, dream, wish and demand. Yes, your fam is there to love, support and protect you as best they can and as much as you will allow them to do so. Yet, once you have grown, of legal age, it is up to YOU to get and keep some act right in order to find fulfillment. This is YOU life. Your family owes you nothing. They love you because, well, just because they love you. When/if you get to acting ten kinds of fools they are perfectly free to kick you to the curb until your act right has gotten it’s act right.

God does NOT owe it to you to fulfill you. YOU must participate in a relationship with Him and grow your faith. He is NOT your concierge, Santa, butler, or maid.

Life does NOT owe it to you to fulfill you. YOU must climb those mountains. YOU must remove those mountains one pebble at a time. YOU must tell Life what you need and ask for assistance in getting what you need/desire/want. YOU must keep keeping on even after your keeping on has long since left you.

Your friends do NOT owe it to you to fulfill you. Yes, they walk with you. Yes, they support you. Yes, they give what they can when they have it to give. Your friends do NOT owe it to you to be your life raft. They give as they can. And, when they don’t have the time or energy it’s not on them or you. You love each other. Period. End of story. For as long as you both shall live or can live with or without one another.

Fulfillment: It’s a YOU problem.

Too many folk are forever disappointed or angry or all manner of things with God, with Life, with jobs, with friends, with family…

All because of having expectancy, having expectations that outside forces will content them on the inside.

Life is short. Time for us, all of us, to own our own stuff. Time for us, all of us, to get some act right and get to filling our own jars. Yes, it is wonderous when others fill up some of our empty spaces. In the meantime, the main person responsible for our fulfillment.

Get to filling.

His and yours,

Cassandra

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