I hang my headphones, 🎧 on the side of the small garbage can, at the head of my bed.
Calm down. Calm down! Before you start hollering about how gross and unsanitary…*Cassandra shakes her head at judgy folk so early in the morning who don’t even know what they judging yet*.
I had gotten sooooooooo tired of slapping things every whicha way, in the dark, flailing for these damned headphones!! Yes, victory eventually came. But, at a dastardly cost. Now, I had the headache of trying to figure out what in the fresh hell I had slapped, hither and yon, in the dark, trying to grab these stupid headphones!!! Ack!!!!
One night, I had angrily slapped my headphones on the small garbage can, at the head of my bed. Why? Cuz, I knew the dumb garbage can was right above my head. That way, I could find all the other dumb, random things I had slapped to hither and yon looking for stupid headphones.
After that, I kept slapping them there. I don’t put major garbage in it. Just the annoying wrapper or kleenex getting on my last nerves. I have a nice and lovely liner on it. Meaning a used Walmart bag.😁
Works for me. Which brings me to today’s message: Do you, boo, even should others think you odd. Do, YOU! HOW YOU DO YOU!
Fret not, beloveds because others think you should be doing you this way or that way. How in the fresh hell can anyone else know how to do you? Half the time you don’t even know.
What’s more, beloveds, please stop trying to do, to be, anyone or anything else besides you. Is much too exhausting and who the world knows why them folk doing themselves thataway?!! Smh.
It’s bad enough we have to fight with autocorrect all day on our phones!!!!😩
Take care and KNOW you are:
Loved.
Cherished.
Cared for.
Prayed for.
Thought of.
I love me some you.
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe

