Beloveds, if yall do NOT stop accepting any old thing and any old body, into your heart and life, I am going to make you walk incline 10 times!
You take more care on selecting fruit than you do on who you love and who you allow to love on you.
I mean it!
Stop that!!
There is only ONE you.
Just because the world is full of chickens, does NOT mean you have to hide, being an 🦅 eagle, in order to fit your priceless heart, into the life and heart of someone who can’t even take care of their own heart.
You are much too priceless and precious to keep giving your heart to those who will not cherish ALL you are.
Take stock. Have courageous conversations with those who are your posse. Is the relationship only going in one direction? Are you loved only for what you do and give?
If so, shows those chickens, the door.
If you have been the taker, get some act right. Acknowledge being about you. Apologize. Start again. Then get about getting about it.
Don’t become discouraged when scammers come your way. They do. They will. Only today, I told someone to kick rocks. He was carrying on about being lonely and his wife dying and his 10 year old daughter needing a mom.
I told him to STOP shopping for a babysitter, for his child. Then, I gave him my email address and told him to let his daughter know I was praying for her and give me a shout out if she wanted.
I received an email. I responded. I received a reply from a supposed ten year old who said she was lonely and sad and had no parent to buy her things.
HAHAHAHAHAHA!
I told him shame on him for scamming others. And, if it was his daughter he had taught her poorly. Smh.
Beloveds, when you put out to the universe for applications, you WILL need to sift through them and have a vigorous screening, interviewing and probationary process. You would do no less in looking for a great job!
Go through your contacts. If you have not heard from your people, more than likely you are not THEIR people. That’s okay. Clear the contact to make room for someone who will be there for and with you. I check on my people on the regular. Stop making excuses for those who get to you when they get to you, if at all.
I am doing my best to share the best practices I have gathered over the past 54 years. I am doing my best to help folk not wait decades to pursue their dreams.
It’s not that I didn’t pursue mine. I just allowed a whole lot of fear, doubt, anger, anxiety, lazy, and a million other things to slow me down.
No matter. God and Life just helped me turn all those things into this outrageous one, called me. They took ALL into account. It’s why ALL THINGS work together, for the good, for those who love God and who are called for His Purpose.
I have rambled long enough. I have more universe applications to work my way through.
Be encouraged.
You are loved.
You are not alone.
Keep on being…YOU.
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
#HereForIt!
Note: Seriously, wombie?! Smh. I love you, sis. More than you shall EVER know. Thank you for allowing me to be the outrageous me the world always says is too loud. You have helped me grow. I am a better me, because of you. Love your twin, Sweetpea.
- BELOVEDS, YOU CAN HAVE MY FLOWERS. I DON’T NEED THEM ANYMORE.
- Forgive them, Cassandra, God said to me
- Still In Love
- REAL TALK: DESPISE NOT SMALL BEGINNINGS, BELOVEDS.👘🦺🥾👟🥿👞🩴👢🩰👡⛑️🔌🕯️🔎🖌️🖋️📢
- IT ME!
Why Can't I Be Loud?! 