God said to me: I got this.

Me: I’m afraid of this illness. It’s bad. I may not make it through THIS.

God: I got this.

God had that. I’m here. STILL.

Me: I’m afraid of this storm. It’s bad. I may not make it through THIS.

God: I got this.

God had that. I’m here. STILL.

Me: I’m afraid of this job situation. It’s bad. I may not make it through THIS.

God: I got this.

God has that. I’m here. STILL.

Life happens, beloveds. There will ALWAYS be a THIS that will pop up. The true test and secret to life is learning what and how to do with THIS when it shows up.

Will you give THIS to God to help you take care of?

Will you look at THIS as nothing but the test/trial that it is?

Will you understand that you WILL get through THIS?

Will you ALLOW YOURSELF to feel what you feel, but NOT allow your feels to rule you, as you make your way through THIS?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: There will ALWAYS be a THIS in your life. There will ALWAYS be something to move past. To wrestle with. To make our way through.

The point is how we are going to be AFTER this has been dealt with.

What shall you be, beloveds, after your this? Who shall you be? Asking for A Friend.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

What the what?!🀯😀

What?

WHAT!!!!?

OMG, WWWWWWHHHHHYYYY?!!!

*stamps foot*….!!!

Wheeewwww!

Scuze me, beloveds, I am trying to get some act right so I can turn my DAMNED πŸ‹ LEMONS INTO UPLIFTING LEMONADE FOR YOU. OMG!!!

*Cassandra stops 😑 pouting long enough to tell her mournful, terribly sad and awfully what in the fresh hell tale*.

*Cassandra thinks she is being really dramatic about this*

*Cassandra becomes angry with reasonable Cassandra, and they get into a terribly entertaining fight*

*Tired of fighting, Cassandra shares her sad, sad, terrible tale*:

I was in the mood for πŸ₯£ cereal. Golden Grahams to be precise. I decided to do an emergency order and ordered some cereal, some πŸ₯ͺ sandwich fixings and odds and ends and breathlessly awaited my order.

A while later, the πŸšͺ doorbell rings. Okay, I don’t have a doorbell, and they left the order without knocking, but still…

I fling the door open to find everything but the Golden Grahams!!! Or, so I thought.

I call the store. Calmly 😑 mad. The store was NOT helpful. Rude, in fact.

I had to tell act right to STAY on the high road. In truth, I dearly wanted to use the low road. I chose the high road.

I told myself to just make sandwiches πŸ₯ͺ after remembering the sandwich fixings.

Dramatically, I pulled out turkey, cheese, and reach for the buns, and there were no buns!! They forgot the buns and canned goods as well!!!! OMG!!!

I wanted to act a fool. I didn’t. In the end, I found some old buns and made some sandwiches. I ordered more cereal. I got on with my life.

Life is short, beloveds. Things happen. Inconvenient things. Frustrating things. Things that will make the way a bit longer.

That’s okay. Roll with the punches. Go another way. Try something different. Make a new plan. Refurbish the old one.

I used this situation to make ME better. I chose not to be angry with the driver. I chose not to be angry with the store. I chose not to be angry.

I chose to laugh. I chose to get on with my evening. In the past, I would have spent the rest of the evening stewing. I would have gone to bed hungry. I would have played the martyr and not fixed something else to eat.

I am growing. Slowly. I am learning. Slowly. I am hungry…lol.

I’m fixing to enjoy some sammiches. Who wants to join me?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: It’s not what happens to us that counts. It’s what happens IN us as we choose to respond in ways that uplifts us and others. Keep on being the awesome folk you are. I love me some you.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Heart β™₯ check Wednesday.

How is your heart today?

Just checking in.

Feeling a smidge overwhelmed.

I tried to pray.

My prayer turned into a chant:

God, I don’t know what to do. I just don’t know what to do. Where do I go? Where do I turn? I just don’t know what to do.

I still don’t, beloveds. Rest has been hard to come by. Guilt keeps stopping by to tell me I should be working. I SHOULD be doing some frantic SOMETHING.

God has been silent. The Universe has told me to chill. Life says to TRUST that all is still well. Ack. Geeeeeeeeeeeeez.

Still, I am comforted by my try. I keep telling myself to just try, Cassandra. Everything really WILL be alright.

Be encouraged, beloveds. We truly will be alright.Β  The storm is just extra loud and scary just now. It WILL pass. New things ARE growing. As are we.

Hang in there. In the meantime, cut yourself some slack. We got this. We CAN. We WILL.

I am carrying each of you around in my pocket so I can pray for you and yours. No shoving each other in there! Be nice or no snacks!…lol.

I love you.

hopeful still,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: We got this. Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

It’s time to believe. In me.

It’s time to believe.

In me.

It’s time to fight.

For my dreams.

I’m ready.

To stand ten toes down.

I’m able.

To withstand ANY foe.

I may not win.

The outcome is not the point.

The point is to get in the arena.

The mission is giving it all I’ve got.

I have won.

Already.

In entering the arena.

I have defeated my biggest enemy.

Which was ME.

winning,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Get in the arena, beloveds, and try. Just try.

There really IS life on the other side of your fear. Ah, it’s glorious. Come join me. The water is perfect. Let’s go!!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You are one moment away.

You are one moment away.

From a breakthrough.

From victory.

From defeat.

From a glorious beginning.

From an ignominious defeat.

Keep moving. FORWARD. You just don’t know which will change everything!

Get going. Move. Try. Do something.

I did NOT want to do something today. I am tired of this unknown. I am exhausted with the high road. I’m through with encouraging myself. So what?!

I’m doing what I can. It’s a have to. The ONLY way things change is if I change them. Heckamiah Jeremiah!😭😑πŸ˜₯πŸ™

I made myself get up and get going. There may be a miracle hiding in this day. I won’t know until I find out.

Be encouraged, beloveds. You are a moment away!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: One step at a time. Ah, God. What do we do in the meantime? Asking for many friends.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Choose: Rest or worry?

Choose.

Rest or worry.

Choose.

Love or apathy.

Choose.

Try or give up.

Choose.

Laugh or despair.

Choose.

Move forward or look behind.

I choose to rest. I choose to love. I choose to try. I choose to laugh.

What do YOU choose, beloveds?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Life is what YOU make it. Make your life an amazing one. Love someone. Starting with you. I love you.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You can if you want to.

I can.

I keep reminding my age of this. I keep reminding my try of this.

I can.

I want to.

I will.

Some kind of way.

What shall YOU do, beloveds?

You can, you know?

Try. Just try.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Everything around me tells me all is hopeless. Ha, I reply back! I can. I can do something. The something may be small. Yet, ONE spark can πŸ”₯ burn down a forest!

Use your spark to change things. Starting with you. Today may be the day the world opens itself for you. In the meantime, open yourself to all life has to offer.

The best is yet to come for us. Wait for it. Be patient. Be joyful. Life is as we are making it. I am making my days glorious. How about you?

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Beloved, you are.

Beloved, you are history in the making.

Beloved, your life can/is changing your surroundings.

What kind of history are YOU making in your life and the lives of those around you?

You ARE making a difference. Is the difference positive? Are folk glad you came or are they relieved that you left?

Are you sowing love or discord?

Are you giving some or are you taking everything?

Are you forgettable because of your apathy? Are you unforgettable because of the care you show?

I was raised to consider others. Unfortunately, these last decades folk have been raised to consider no one but themselves.

Beloved, you are…

Whatever YOU choose to be. What/who do you CHOOSE to be?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I choose to love. You. I do.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Make this world regret dismissing you.

Ah, beloveds.

I see you!

Ah, beloveds. I see the greatness just waiting to be unleashed within you!

This IS your time!

THIS is your moment!

Seize it!

Make this world regret dismissing you.

How?

You tell me!!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Can you feel it, beloveds? Can you feel the earth quaking in fear of YOUR greatness set to be unleashed within and upon it!

Let’s go!!!!!

Shine your light.

Stand up.

Show up.

Show out!

There is no way in hell any of us are going to allow our world to disintegrate into a hopeless mess with our consent!

There is too much good in us. Start kicking darkness in the uh-oh! Let’s go, people!

We NEED one another. ALL of us. We shall NOT be moved!!!

Get out there and love as many folk as you can. Especially the especially hard headed ones. Smh.



One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Fear, you is a dummy.

Fear, you is a dummy.

You thought you had me.

You were waiting for me to get got.

But, I got YOU.

Locked down.

Imprisoned.

Stewing in your own juice.

Yea, fear, you thought you had me.

Turns out I had YOU.

Reduced to rubble.

Smashed to smithereens.

Beaten.

By love.

Defeated.

By try.

By me.

What say you now, fear?

I can’t hear you.

Too busy laughing at YOUR demise.

You thought you had me.

Turns out I had YOU.

What say you, fear?

Who is running now?

I suggest YOU get to running, fear.

There is NO room for you here.

Be gone.

Go your way.

I got thangs to do!

doing thangs free from fear,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Sometimes, beloveds, you just HAVE to let fear know where to go!

Stop running. Face fear head on. You got this. God has us all. Fear is nothing but a liar.

Tell yourself the truth: You CAN. You WILL! Now, get out there and get it. Help someone else get theirs. Together we win. Let’s go!!!!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!