Category: God

Nah fam!

Nope.

We ain’t falling for it.

We aren’t going for the okie doke!

People are running around everywhere trying to get us all in a hoopla. Everything is crashing. Everybody hates everybody else. We will not overcome all of that is going on.

Chaos reigns in fear. Chaos NEEDS fear to survive.

Nah fam, we don’t have time to waste on lies and foolishness.

Life truly is what we ALL make it. We ALL get the opportunity to shine a light, to be a light, to make a way, to BE the way.

Let’s not fall for the old trick of division and fear. Let’s come together and talk to one another. Let’s find time common ground. Let’s decide we’re not going to waste our lives screaming yet the television and our phones.

I have done away with doom scrolling. I rarely use the social media apps except to post positive videos and messages. Life is much too short.

I just stopped by to let you know how much I love you care about your life. Turn off the phone and talk to your neighbor. Get outside for a walk. Stop living in a silo. Enjoy the stars. Enjoy the fresh air. Enjoy your life since you only get one of them. Take care.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Be encouraged. Everything really will be okay. I refuse to hate my neighbor. I refuse to believe everyone hates me. I refuse to believe the world is filled with nothing but chaos, anger, hatred, despair and darkness. We are all responsible. We can all be a light and shine our light. I’m going to keep fighting every single day and encouraging people every single day.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I won because I tried.

I won because I tried.

Nuff said.

trying still,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: There are days when all we have the strength to do is try just a little bit. Just getting out of bed is a real effort. But that’s okay. Life can be that way. In the meantime, keep doing the best that you can. It’s all that life requires of us.

Keep trying. The best is yet to come for you and me.

I am FINALLY learning that I truly am more than what I have or will produce in life. Just because my finances are a wreck, from lack of being able to find a job yet in this wrecked economy,  does NOT mean I am a wreck. I have taken cared of myself, financially, for the last 50 plus years years. It has been terribly disconcerting to find myself lacking.

This time WILL pass. I want it to pass with me being a better me. This time has shown me how precious life is. How fleeting moments are. Lasting ones.

Life is more than a paycheck. So much more.

Be encouraged, beloveds. If you find yourself in a wrecked stage of life. You are NOT being punished. Pushed? Certainly. Extended? Absolutely. Challenged? Undoubtedly.

In the meantime, enjoy your day. As shall I.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Tell it no.

Tell fear no.

Tell lazy no.

Tell apathy no.

Tell doubt no.

Now that you have all the nos out of the way, how about chasing down the yes?!

Yes, I will try it

Yes, I will do it.

Yes, I can.

Life is how we choose. Say yes. Don’t allow your options to be one of apathy. We have millions of choices every day. Not making a choice is a choice. What are you saying yes to today? What are you saying no to?

Choose those things that will bring your dreams closer to fruition. Make today fantastic.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: You got this. So go do it.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Whatcha Doin?

Whatcha Doin?

Are you pursuing your dreams? Are you looking out for you? Are you making new friends? Are you trying new things?

Are you chasing down those things that set your heart on fire? Are you star gazing? Are you daydreaming?

Are you failing spectacularly? Are you trying new recipes? Are you reaching out to old friends? Are you making amends?

Life is short. Whatcha doin with the life that you have?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Life is short. Get to living it. You do NOT have to forever be surviving life. Egads, that gets old. Embrace your now. Stop worrying about a tomorrow that has not arrived! Let’s go!! We got thangs to do.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Running on empty.

I am running on empty. I am running out of encouraging things to say. Okay, I’m not but it just feels like it. I’m tired of the same old, same old. I’m ready for change. I’m ready to be doing something different. I’m tired of this limbo I find myself in this last year.

I wonder if people get tired of my rah rah messages every single day?

The Universe told me to rest today and watch some action movies. Yet I find myself here. I wonder if anyone else is running on empty these days.

There has been 14 confirmed two tornadoes in my state these past few months. Exhausting. Overwhelming. Depressing. Discouraging. It feels like they would never end. I know they will eventually.

In the meantime, It’s important that we take care of ourselves. It’s important that we allow ourselves time to refresh and to refill. I think I will go find some movies to watch. I need a hero today. I don’t have the strength to be my own hero. I hear popcorn calling. Who wants to join me?

Make sure to take care of yourself. There is only one you. Summer will be upon us soon. Enjoy your day. Enjoy your life the best that you can. Remember all the things that you still have.

Remember that you are more than what you do or what you have. I have to remind myself of it every day.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Have an amazing day. Remember that you are loved and not alone.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Thankful for the hard times.

I’m thankful today. Thankful for all the hard times. These hard days are forcing me to move beyond my fears. These hard days are forcing me to take my old age and run into the future.

These hard days are making me acknowledge my strengths and weaknesses. These are days are challenging me to my core. I am thankful for that. There are days when I wish I would have chosen the easier path of hiding in my comfort zone. I could do that all day.

I think about my old job and how easy it was. Then I think about the sadness I carried in my heart all day, as I wished I would have pursued my dreams. I don’t have that sadness now. I feel joy.

Yes, I’m anxious because I don’t have a job and don’t know how I’m going to meet my needs. I try not to focus on that. I do my best to focus on what I have currently. Can’t do my best to encourage as many people as I can every day. I do my best to keep myself encouraged. I remind myself that this too shall pass. It will.

Be encouraged, beloveds. Your hard won’t stay hard forever. Keep doing the best that you can. You are building a legacy. Be proud of your try.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Greatness take time. And effort. Keep going.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

God asked me: Why are you here?

God: Why are you here?

Me: I have been asking this question for 50 years.

God: Why are you here, with Me?

Me: Because I love You. Because You first loved me.

God: What shall you DO while you are HERE. At THIS time?

Me: I was hoping You would tell me.😁🤣🥰

Approval.

Recognition.

Validation.

Love.

Safety/security.

We are all in search of these things. We all wonder, I think, what in the world are we doing here?!😳

My 56 is wondering if I will have a 57. 60 seems much too close for comfort.

I do NOT want to leave this world without having fulfilled my whatever in the fresh hoohah I am supposed to. Ack.

I wonder if I will be asking this question 50 years from now. One can dream, eh?

Whilst you are wondering, beloveds, be sure to embrace the life you have.

Have a wonderful today.

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

It’s okay to be an idiot…sometimes.😳

It’s okay to be an idiot…sometimes.😳

I did something really dumb. I mean really dumb!…*stamps foot*.

Instead of waiting five days, I miscalculated, added dumbly, and messed up some sorely needed funds.

Five days, Cassandra!😳😡

Now, I have one less month to maneuver financially. All because I couldn’t wait for five days!…*stamps foot*

I made the decision based on fear of what “could” happen. I failed to calculate what “would” happen, NOW, IN THE PRESENT CASSANDRA! WHAT IN THE FRESH HELL WERE YOU THINKING!??

I just stopped by to encourage folk to hang in there and be good to yourself even when you do something absolutely STUPID LIKE DO SOMETHING NOW THAT COULD HAVE WAITED FOR FIVE DAYS!!…opps..ehem….my bad.

Don’t give yourself a hard time when you fall prey to being human. Try to laugh your way through the dumbness. I know I am trying to.

In the meantime, I’m having a cup of coffee, getting over the oops I can do nothing about, and getting on with my day.

In the past, I would have wasted the rest of the day kicking myself and carrying on about something that can’t be changed. I was a dumbsky. It happens.  I happened to me today…lol.

Be encouraged. Have a fabulous rest of your Sunday. Geez, Cassandra. Really?!

wondering what dumb thing I shall do next,

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note:

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Nobody cares.

Life is hard.

Nobody cares.

Go make it happen, beloveds. Make all the hard work for your good. All of it.

In the middle of quitting, I laughed.

I have too many folk to encourage. I can’t quit.

Neither can you. Get back up. Let’s go!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: A funny thing happened on my way to quitting. I found the strength to keep it moving. Who knew? God did. Life did. The Universe did. My dreams did. So does yours. Keep going.

There is too much in us, too much before us, and too much for us to do to give up just because of sustained hard. So what?! Keep it moving.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

God asked me: What do you want?

God: WHAT do you want?

Me: I want to be financially free.

God: What DO you want?

Me: I want to help others.

God: What do YOU want?

Me: I want to encourage as many as I can.

God: What do you WANT?

Me: I want to be financially secure so I can spend my days encouraging and loving as many folks as I can.

Approval.

Recognition.

Validation.

Love.

Safety/security.

We all want these things don’t we, beloveds?

HOW/WHERE/WHEN shall we possess them?

Who are we supposed to be to have them?

What are supposed to do to have them?

Most folk don’t feel as though they were/are enough so that find themselves trying to be everybody else.

I don’t want to be anyone but me.

I want to live a life where I can enjoy the beauty of nature.

I want to be able to see beauty in my fellow man.

I want to enjoy a good cup of coffee.

I want…

What do YOU want, beloveds? It’s important to know what YOU want. Not what others want and demand for you.

Take the time to ask, if you have not. You may be surprised at what your heart truly wants for your life.

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Have an amazing today.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!