We won’t go back!

We won’t go back!

We will not go back to a life of fear and dread.

We are moving FORWARD.

We are shooting our best shot.

We are giving our all.

We CHOOSE.

We stand ten toes down on FAITH.

We are going to do the hard.

We are going to do what it takes.

We owe it to ourselves to leave everything on the field.

Win or lose, we got this.

Let’s go!!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: This has me fired up!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Listen: Owning my crap.

Crap.

Sheeeeeeeeeeuuit!

Ewwww!

*Cassandra looks upon decades’ worth of hollering, not listening, not being WILLING to see the other side, and rushing them to the trash heap of history*

Geeeeeeez.😯

Lessons sure are hard to learn, eh? Especially when one realizes how much of a moron one has been, over the course of time. Jimmy Crickets!

I have kicketh my behindeth, here lately. Maybe, it’s from all the studying I have been doing. I’m trying to cram a lifetime into the past few months.

Be encouraged. Keep being willing to own your uh-ohs. No fun but needed. I think I shall reward myself with a honey bun.

Have a stupendous day.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Short piece. Ow, Cassandra. πŸ˜³πŸ˜πŸ™

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I forgot to be afraid.

My dreams called me this morning.

I answered.

I forgot to be afraid.

I forgot to be old.

I forgot I was broke.

I forgot about discouragement.

I forgot to despair.

My dreams are calling me. I must hurry…

refusing to give up,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I gave myself a day to be sad. This morning, I made sad go get me some β˜• coffee. I have much too much to do.

Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You owe it to yourself.

Love you.

You owe it to yourself.

Fight for you.

You owe it to yourself.

Let love in.

You owe it to yourself.

Cut yourself some slack.

You owe it to yourself.

Rest.

You owe it to yourself.

Keep the promises you have made.

You owe it to yourself.

Be willing to change your mind.

You owe it to yourself.

Be willing to be wrong.

You owe it to yourself.

Try something new.

You owe it to yourself.

Break out something old.

You owe it to yourself.

Rinse. Repeat.

You owe it to yourself.

Keep looking out for you, beloveds.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: You owe it to yourself.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I lay down with discouragement. We talked for a little while.

I lay down with discouragement. We talked for a little while.

I asked it why it was so damned discouraged?

Said it didn’t know. Said it “just wuz”.

After a while, I told discouragement it had to go. I had thangs to do. Discouragement understood. It went in search of folk easily swayed. I was not.

I just stopped by to encourage folk a bit. Starting with me.

Be encouraged. We CAN. We WILL. Eventually. I think.πŸ˜³πŸ€—πŸ˜‚πŸ₯°

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Things really WILL be alright. I have just been focusing on the tossing waves. 🌊 Time to focus on getting to the other side. Some kind of way. Be encouraged. Don’t give up. Not just yet.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Real talk: Sometimes, you just have to hang on during the storm(s).

These storms, the last four days, have been relentless.

They have, in fact, been historic. Awful flooding. Dodging πŸŒͺ tornadoes. 14 or so, at last count.

Since Wednesday morning, I have done my all to keep folk encouraged whilst trying to hang onto my sanity.

I keep telling myself this is NOT last year’s tornado.Β  Doesn’t help much with 🚨 sirens going off every which way and vertigo losing its mind.😳🀯

I just stopped ’round to encourage somebody. It’s easy to want to throw in the towel when all hell is breaking out everywhere.

Hang on. Hang in there. The storms will and do pass. Hold tight, to your dreams, until they do.

I have not used these storms as permission to comfort eat, rage at storms doing what storms do, or berate myself for being tired of having to be positive whilst going through fifty million storms already!!!!

Beloveds, it’s perfectly okay to be tired of being about being about it when things are hard for a good length of time.

Be tired. Be human. Just don’t quit. We have too many thangs to do. Summer will be here soon. Keep moving FORWARD. Keep looking UP.

Hold fast to your peace. Keep standing ten toes down on FAITH. Be sure to laugh. Even if you can find nothing to laugh at save how dumb you look hollering at the storm…lol.

We got this. God has us all. Be encouraged. If you are feeling really low, it really will help to look out for someone else. It will also help take your mind off your own what the hell is this.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Be encouraged. Ah, God. Hurry. Just a smidge. Asking for many friends.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Listen: Is it about the chef or the diner?

The chef.

The diner.

Each needs the other.

One to serve his/her/their interpretation of the meal.

One to partake of the meal.

What is MORE important:

The chef’s interpretation?

The diner’s satisfaction or lack thereof?

If the diner doesn’t like it, does it negate the chef’s effort?

Doesn’t the diner have the right to their opinion? They didn’t like it. It happens.

There are a million potential reasons why that may have nothing to do with the chef.

In addition, the chef needs to take in the palette, the dietary needs, the likes/dislikes of the diner and factor these things as he prepares.

The diner is responsible for understanding there may be a lack of ingredients that are out of season. He/she/they must also factor in the type of establishment they are eating in and what kind of dishes the chef is known for.

Living with one another is a dance. We all have to be WILLING to see the viewpoint of our counterpart.

There will be times, beloveds, where we will be the chef. There are other times we are the diner.

In ALL times, we need to consider others. We are all humans who are, hopefully, trying to serve the best meal we can!

Let’s give each other the space to do and be better, shall we? I have been doing my utmost to be a safe space in as many places as I can.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: This piece really has me thinking of what all I can do to be more understanding, more resourceful, more forgiving of us all.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Heart ❀ check Sunday.

Good morning, beloveds.

Doctor Cassandra is doing a house call to check on your heart.

How are YOU?

Did you get in your me time this week? I sure hope so.

If not, do better.

If so, an extra treat for you.

Remember life is what YOU make it. What goodies are you preparing for yourself and others?

You can start over as many times as needed.

If you are tired, rest.

If you are refreshed, do.

If you don’t want to, don’t!

Be sure to turn things off.

Be certain to turn the volume up super high on your dreams.

Celebrate your small victories. Be understanding of your inevitable defeat.

I hear my me time calling. I have one cup of coffee to spare. Who wants to join me?

Meet me in the comments…

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I love you. Be good to you.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Go.

Go!

Nuff said.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Go. I have been enjoying the journey.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Just for a laugh.

This cracked me up.πŸ€—πŸ€Έβ€β™€οΈ

Have an amazing day today. Be sure to squeeze in as many laughs as you can.

Don’t forget to take your dreams with you. They have been hankering to get out of your underwear drawer. Let someone see them.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: In case no one has told you today: I love you. So does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!