
I’m trying to be that kind of person.
Are you?
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: We need each other. Let’s keep doing the best we can.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!


I’m trying to be that kind of person.
Are you?
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: We need each other. Let’s keep doing the best we can.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!

I wanted to encourage folk. Yet, I have been super tired.
These last few weeks have found me in bed more than out of it. Vertigo has been my constant companion and tormentor. Ack and sheeeeuuuuit.
I keep telling myself to be encouraged, Cassandra. I keep telling myself to keep on keeping on.
This morning, I told myself we will just try again. At first, beloveds, I wondered if I would even find words to say. Discouragement has been dogging my thoughts. I keep telling it to kick rocks and go away.
I found one word. Then, two. Then, a sentence. Then, a paragraph.
After a while, I forgot the spinning world. My heart began to refill itself as I concentrated on others.
I just stopped by to encourage someone to reach out to others. We all need one another. My lonely is not so lonely today.🥰
Be encouraged. Take care.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Love someone today. Starting with you.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!


I give myself permission to be me. I give myself permission to make a million mistakes today. I give myself permission to miss mom. I give myself permission to wonder why things are not moving forward.
I give myself permission to be tired. I give myself permission to be lonely. I give myself permission to be content being alone. I give my heart permission to feel whatever it needs to today.
Give yourself permission. Let yourself off the hook.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Enough said.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!


I needed this today. I figured you could use this as well, beloveds. I love you. Be encouraged.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Keep going. Life feels hard tonight.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!


Don’t worry. Everything will work itself out.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: We got this! Let’s make it happen. I have spent too many decades worrying about things that never happened. A big waste of time. None of us knows what our today will bring. None of us knows we are having tomorrow. All we can do is the best that we can today with every moment that we have.
I have been having to make do with less, or make do with nothing. as has been having to reimagine with the things that I have. I’m trying things I never would have in the past. I wish the hard wasn’t so hard. It is what it is. I shall keep on keeping on. Be encouraged. Things will work out in the end.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!


I needed this today…
Things WILL work out. They will. Be encouraged til things come out in the wash.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: I can do all things…
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!


I have been fighting fear wherever I come across it. I have been finding it in my age. I have been finding it in my thoughts.
I am ruthless with fear now. I start throwing haymakers IMMEDIATELY.
It’s okay to be attempted to give fear leadership. Fear lies to you and can be awfully persuasive. Just don’t believe the hype. Deal with fear head on.
I grow every time I confront my fears and weaknesses. There is nothing wrong with not being strong in an area. We work on our weakness. We accept ourselves as we work on us.
None of us will ever be perfect. We CAN be decent people though. I choose to be a loving and decent person. A bit boring, perhaps, but decent!
My coffee says I am being rude. Join me if you’d like. I have decided to spend the day watching ridiculously predictable action movies. I need to see some winning.
Have a beautiful day.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: You can do more than you know. Try.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!


You ARE doing your best, beloveds. Let your try be enough.
I never seem to FEEL like I am enough these past few months.
My try FEELS inadequate. My attempts SEEMS as though they are not looking. It LOOKS likes my dreams are not taking hold.
Things are NOT what they seem. We are exactly where we are supposed to be at this time in our lives.
Be encouraged. Enjoy your today. I spent a delightful Sunday yakking with fam and a friend. I then followed up with a ridiculously predictable action movie. Tell me WHY beloveds, nobody can seem to shoot the good guys? Why does the good guy NEVER miss?! Why are folk forever jumping on motorcycles when they are going chased by black SUVs?🤣😳
The damsel was rescued by the man. Of course. The poor woman was helpless and grateful. Of course. Don’t get me started on stereotypes today.
I think I shall go find some chocolate donuts to rescue from their encampment and free some coffee as well. Who wants to be my sidekick?🥰😎🤣
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Life is what WE make it and perceive it to be. Make it a good one. Focus on what you can and have been doing. I love you. So does He.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!


Be thankful.
Have hope.
Give love.
That’s all I got today folks…lol.
Be encouraged.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Have an amazing week. It is taking everything within me to maintain my joy. between the storms and vertigo life has not been funny. I have had to change how I do things. I work as long as I can, because there are days when I just can’t work. in the past, I would have driven me up ten walls. I have learned and I’m still learning to work with what I have. 56 is teaching me many a lesson. 56 goes to bed when she wants to and doesn’t care if it’s in the middle of the afternoon!

Have an amazing rest of your day. Be sure to get your me time in there. Make sure to cut yourself some slack. Remember, you’re doing the best that you can. That’s all you can ask of yourself.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!

I was hungry. I wanted bacon and eggs. I placed an order.
My order was a few minutes away. I looked at what I did have and realized I could have most of my meal prepared and make the bacon when it came. I didn’t have to wait till the bacon came to start preparing my meal.
I did just that. I had things timed perfectly. In just a bit, I was happily munching on a feast. This had me thinking about my life and all that I can do while I’m waiting for my dreams to show up and show out.
You don’t have to wait for this to happen before you do some things. Use what you have. Take advantage of your now. This is the only time that we get. Let’s make the best of it.
asking for a Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Life is short. Get to cooking!
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!
#YourLifeMattersToMe
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