Is time for us to rest. We have done our work. We have done our best.
It’s time to rest. It’s time to reflect on all that we have accomplished for the week. It’s time to celebrate our try.
Rest now.
Take care of you now.
Don’t worry about the days to come. The day will take care of itself. Take care of you. You are important. Feel good about what you have done. It’s not on you how others respond to what you have done.
Be encouraged. You have much to be thankful for. You are still here. You can begin again any time you want to. You can make friends anytime you want to. You can forgive yourself with others anytime you want to. Make the choice to be happy today. Make the choice to rest today.
Remember you are loved and you are not alone.
resting with you,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Too often, we give ourselves a hard time about what we did or did not do. We have done or best, haven’t we? Let that be enough…
The more things change, the more they stay the same, it seems. We try. We fail. Rinse. Repeat. Smh.
Summer is over. I wonder what happened to it. I wonder what happened to me, in it.
I’m tired. Have said these two words ALL year!
My birthday is next Friday!😳. 55. 55?!!
A long time to have waited, for these stupid dreams of mine, to GET HERE ALREADY!!
Just thinking about them makes me want to take to my bed. I want to be angry with them. Life would have been so much easier without these stupid dreams forever hollering in my ear!
*stamps foot*
Huh?
I’m supposed to be encouraging you?
Hhmmm.
*Cassandra scrounges ’round, in her tired heart, looking for some encouragement.*
*shrug*
All I could find were some shrugs, some tired, some sad, and some what the fresh hell is taking so long.
*shrug*
See?
That’s okay. I’m content. Even now. Even frustrated and sad. Am not sad so much as tired.
I think I hear a cup of coffee calling me. I have done my work. It’s time to rest.
Time for you to rest, as well.
I’m looking forward to the next 55 years. Yikes!🤣🥰
Be encouraged. Thanksgiving will be here, soon. Be thankful, now, for your life. Don’t forget:
You are more than, what you do.
Your value comes simply from, your birth.
There is NOTHING you need to add, to you, to make you more lovable. You are loved. You are altogether lovely!
You are special, right now, messed up, messes, and all.😉😘
I don’t know, what to do with the emotions running all over the room.
I don’t know, what to do with want to that don’t want to.
I don’t know, what to do with bills I can’t pay.
I don’t know, what direction to turn.
I don’t know, what to do with my sad.
I don’t know, what to do with my mad.
I don’t know, what to do with my writing.
I don’t know, what to do with me.
What do I do?
I write.
I give myself permission to be sad.
I give voice to my anger.
I start walking in any direction knowing The Universe will point me the right way.
I allow myself to sell.
I remind myself to rejoice and embrace the day.
I happen to my day.
When you don’t know what to do, beloveds, sometimes it’s good, to do something.
Not knowing can be used as an excuse to not try.
Try, YOUR way. Leave out some commas. Throw in, some exclamation points!
When you don’t know what to do, do something.
doing something with you,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Being forced to learn a super hard position, at my tender age of 50ish, was THE toughest thing I have EVER done. It was:
Humbling.
Demeaning.
Demanding.
Embarrassing.
Just about every ing one could go through. I cried. A lot. I fussed at God. A lot. Told Him it was NOT fair to put me through this. Not, NOW, I said. I had gotten comfortable. I KNEW what I was doing! I was great at it. Now, I had not the first clue. Yikes.
Those times, those incredibly embarrassingly hard times, forced me to confront:
Failure.
Discouragement.
More, failure.
More, discouragement.
Until, I fought my way out. I learned that I was okay, even if I had not the first clue. My identity was no longer in how awesome I was, at my job. God loved me, mess ups and all. Whew!
I no longer had to walk a high wire of trying to earn love/respect through my actions/deeds/efforts.
I could talk for days, on this subject. I shall end, temporarily, with this:
When you don’t know what to do, do something. It will help to get you out of the paralyzing state of ‘I can’t do this!’. You can. You will.
Be encouraged. If you are here, with me, it is proof that you ARE doing all you know, eh?
I wish someone had told me, long time ago, I didn’t have to be strong. That I didn’t have to spend my life, trying to convince the world I was worthy of being here. I was. I am. As, are you, beloveds.
Thank you, for spending a bit of time, with me. You could be doing anything. Amazingly, you made your way here. I am honored. Life is short. Love someone. Start with you.
here,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: I have been pondering and praying for all the fantastic bloggers/readers on WordPress.com. I have been stalking many of yall…lol. I have been enjoying the different blogs. If you don’t have one, consider creating one. You would be amazed how much fun they are and how fulfilling they can be. Yes, at first, it can be awfully discouraging to get few, if any, likes or responses. Do like I do and make up a million tags/categories. I have NO idea what that does but that’s how a few have made their way to my blog…*shrug*.
I will not allow apathy to keep me from doing what is right.
Not on my watch.
I will never give up on you.
Not on my watch.
* Cassandra turns away, from the mirror, and gets on with the rest of her life.*
keeping her promises,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: It’s important, beloveds, to affirm, OUT LOUD, what you will and will not for. If no one stands with or for you, so what?! What will you allow, or not, on your watch? Asking for A Friend.
Don’t fall for the notion that Wednesday is hump day. Let Wednesday, be the day where you gain momentum. Let Wednesday, be the day where you restock your energies, for the rest of the week.
Life is what to make it. Life is what you tell it to be. Tell yourself the truth. You can. You will.
Until you make it happen, take a breath. Take a break. Look around and see all that you have accomplished.
Tell worry not to worry. Calf here not to be afraid. Tell disappointments it’s okay to be disappointed.
We got this. Keep being about being about it. Don’t forget to look after your heart in the process. Keep loving you. It’s important. You are important.
I find myself in another difficult training class. It’s long. It’s frustrating. It’s semi boring. I tell myself it’s exciting and new…lol.
Life is what you make it. Life is what you tell yourself. Tell yourself awesome things. Make it an awesome life.
Take care of yourself today.Take care of yourself, today.
having an amazing day,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: What have you done for YOU, today? Be good to you. Asking for A Friend. Remember that you are loved and not alone.
Note: There are times, when all hell has broken loose, where it is easy to focus on all the what in the fresh hell is this, then on staying focused on our dreams and goals.
Count it ALL joy, beloveds. All of it. All is making YOU into the awesome diamond you are. ALL is creating, in you, strength, faith, fight and all the things you shall need, to bring your dreams into fruition.
In the meantime, drag lazy, discouragement and fear, into the shower and LEAVE THEM THERE! We got thangs do do. Let’s get to doing those things, eh?
Worrying/fretting will not make your troubles, go away. Give your troubles a boot, to the rear, and keep it moving.
Be encouraged. Why? Cuz you are loved and you are not alone and you got to hang out with me. What the heck else could one need?!….lol.
