Grateful.

Don’t worry.

Fear not.

You got this. God has us all.

Be encouraged.

I’m grateful for every bit of hard that shows me that I CAN and that I WILL.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Hang in there. WE can do this thing called life. Together. Let’s choose to stay committed to caring for one another. Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Turn on the light.

Turn on the light.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: We are NOT alone. Morning shall come. In the meantime, turn on the light. Be a light. Shine your light.

The world seems upside down. It’s not. It just feels that way, at the moment. These moments shall pass. All moments do. Make the most of yours. I’m doing the best I can with mine.

Don’t let the loudness of this present darkness fool or frighten you, beloveds. God is in control EVERYWHERE. Besides, karma is a true B for a reason!

Keep on being the person of integrity that you are. Keep on being the hopeful person that you have always been.

Keep on looking UP. Keep on moving FORWARD.

These times shall pass. Who will you be when they do?

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Just give them you, God said to me.

For weeks, months really, I have been struggling to figure out HOW to start again.

There is so much I want to share. There is much I would love to say.

The trouble has come in the HOW. Not so much the what of things.

I spent the day drinking coffee and dreaming of the day where I could freely share ME and encourage a billion folk.

I paced the floor. Okay, I paced in my mind as the floor needs to be vacuumed and I am trying to pretend it’s not there.

Anywho, I pondered. I wondered aloud.

Out of the blue, God tapped me on the shoulder and whispered:

“Just give them you”.

Four words. Stopped me in my tracks.

Suddenly, all kinds of silly slogans came to my mind. Dumb thoughts I have been trying to squish down as who would seek out THAT?!😳

Apparently, God thinks MY that is what is required just now. Wow!

I had ALWAYS tried to keep my silly out of my writing. I enjoy phrasing things in weird ways that makes no sense whilst making all the sense in the world.

I enjoy removing commas for the sheer pleasure of breaking rules that were written by a somebody therefore anybody can rewrite or write over them. Whew!

I guess God just wants me to be…ME.

ME!

The me that was never asked out. The me that never went to prom. The me that never had kids. The me that will never be called grandma by blood relatives.

Yet, this me has been one that has cared for many, many others through being Certified Nurses Assistant caring for the elderly. A Youth Worker who cared for kids who had been physically, sexually and emotionally abused.

A me who has been a Correctional Officer. A me who spent more than 14 years happily assisting customers and stores.

A me who tells terrible jokes. A me who longs for unity with all. A me who enjoys football. A me who enjoys watching cooking shows from folks all over the world.

A me that I love. Now. I didn’t used to love me. I had learned to listen to all the lies that I was unworthy, not worth it and not worth while.

I was. I am. I always will be. So are you, beloveds.

I am an encourager. I am an intercessor. I am a goof. I am God’s Goofhead. As it should be.

It took years to learn HOW to love me some me. I endeavour to spend the rest of my life loving others and shouting love from the rooftops.

Ah, beloveds, if God spared me from that tornado to be ME, let me be me and say:

You are worth it.

You are worthy.

You are worth while.

Oh, that I could walk each and every one of you home!

I love you. I hope the best for you. I wish I could take away your every hurt. I wish that I could meet your every need.

Ah, God, folk need to be loved. They need Your Love. Love them. Be there for them. Let them know they CAN. Let them know they WILL!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I’m walking you home in my heart!

Keep on being YOU, beloveds. This world needs what only YOU can give it.

We are in some mighty dark times. Only love will see us through. It will. In the meantime, be encouraged. I’m praying for us all. Even for those who think me the fool. I am. A fool for Christ.🤣❤🥰🙏🎤

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I want.

I want to be a vessel of peace.

I will be.

I want to be a safe space for folk to be loved and cared for.

I will be.

I want to be the kind of person who will love those who don’t love me.

I will be.

I want to be a light.

I will be.

I want to be one who brings joy to the joyless.

I will be.

I choose to be a vessel of peace. I choose to be a safe space for folk to be loved and cared for. I choose to be the kind of person who will love those who don’t love me.

What do YOU want?

What do YOU choose?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I want…

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Hold fast: Settled.

The unknown is unnerving today.

The unknown is unsettling today.

God has my back.

I KNOW Him.

That settles it.

Which settles me.

Hold fast, beloveds. The unknown can be absolutely terrifying if you focus on what you don’t know. Focus on what you DO know: You are loved. You are NOT alone.

Be encouraged.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Hang in there. There is sooooooo much negative noise in world right now. It’s hard to block out the foolishness. We must. We have too many thangs to do.

Let’s do our best to stay focused on our dreams. Let’s make them come true. Some kind of way! Let’s go!!!!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Pressure is a privilege.

Don’t fret.

Don’t stress.

Don’t fear pressure.

Pressure is a privilege.

Pressure only visits the worthy.

Pressure will only reveal itself to the humble.

Pressure reveals.

Pressure works with only those few souls who are undaunted by fear and failure.

Pressure accompanies greatness.

Pressure precedes the victory.

Pressure manifests magnificence.

Pressure unleashes the before untapped essence.

Embrace the pressure.

Welcome this sign that you HAVE arrived.

You have made it to THE final stages.

Ah, pressure.

What shall you reveal about me?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: The pressure you feel, beloveds, is simply bringing out the diamond in you!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Make them take the long, hard road.

Fear.

Make it take the long hard road. Don’t make it easy for fear to scare you from your path.

Doubt.

Make them take the long, hard road. Don’t make it easy for them to wreak havoc in your mind.

Apathy.

Make it take the long, hard road. Don’t make it easy for it to discourage and dissuade you.

Do the hard thing. Work through the difficult thing. Make hay with the impossible thing.

Dreams are miracles WE make happen in real time!

Go on ahead, beloveds, and create your miracle. While so doing, remember YOU are a miracle.

believing in and with you,


Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: You got this. Go make it happen.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Doubt came to visit me. I made it do the laundry.

Doubt came to visit me. I made it do the laundry.

I no longer entertain doubt, beloveds.

As soon as doubt stops by, I give it something to do. I don’t waste time wondering if I can. I get to doing something.

Doubt will always come calling when you endeavour to do something with your life.

When doubt stops round, beloveds, give it something to do.

Work on your dream.

Exercise.

Read.

Write.

Sing.

Visit someone who could use some company.

Do the neighbor’s yard.

Phone a friend.

Do NOT entertain doubt/fear. All that does is multiply them and imprisons you.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Don’t let your percieved limitations limit you. Find a way. Make a way. Show us the way. You know more than you give yourself credit for. We all NEED your you! As only YOU can be. Come on out of hiding and allow the world to experience the great like known as you.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You have been preparing for these moments your whole life.

You are here, beloveds.

You have arrived. This is your time.

It’s time. Time for you to reveal your greatness for all the world to see.

You have been preparing for THESE moments your whole life.

Fear not. If so, take fear with you! These are the moments you have been waiting for.

Enjoy them. Do your best. Try. Then, let the chips fall where they may.

You may win. You may lose. Whatever the result, you gave your all.

There is beauty in your try. YOU did. YOU loved. YOU gave. YOU strove. YOU endured.

In spite of. Despite. Through it all.

Be proud of you. NOW. Don’t wait for the outcome to decide if you are satisfied.

Be filled with joy. NOW. These are awesome moments. ALL of them. The building of. The making of. The success of. The defeat in.

In ALL of your moments, beloveds, take in the wonder of YOU. You tried. You gave it all you got.

You have been preparing for these moments your whole life. Enjoy them. Enjoy YOU!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Things takes time. I tell myself this EVERY day. Don’t allow these moments to pass by without your squeezing every drop of life and knowledge and joy and fun that you can find in them.

You CAN. You WILL!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You are more than your less.

I feel helpless.

I feel hopeless.

I feel joyless.

I feel powerless.

I have spent ALL day, beloveds, pulling the less out of my feels.

Feelings are just that: Feelings.

Feelings do NOT dictate who we are or where we are going. At least, they are not supposed to be the leader.

We are so much more than we give ourselves credit for.

I am:

Helpful.

Hopeful.

Joyful.

Powerful.

Tough times are not here to end us. Tough times forces us to choose US. Tough times make us make a decision to believe or give up.

I CHOOSE to:

Move FORWARD.

Look UP.

Stand ten toes down on FAITH, not fear.

Believe in me.

Trust God.

Laugh.

Love.

Live.

When things grow tough, beloveds, keep peeling the less off your feels. Remember that you are mighty. You are magnificent. You are loved.

Never forget that.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Be encouraged. There is no getting around these tough times. We shall get through them. In the meantime, enjoy your day. Find some joy and peace, in the middle of the chaos, all around.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!