Take your focus off what you fear so you can see.

I can see!

I can hear!

I can receive!

For so long, beloveds, I couldn’t see straight. I couldn’t think clearly. Why? Because ALL I had been focusing on were my fears.

I focused on what I had lost.

I focused on what I had still to lose.

I focused on all the what if I nevers.

It took months of fighting, of standing, of refusing to give way to fear, to teach me how to stand on FAITH.

In so doing, I found SURE footing.

Be encouraged. Stop worrying about those pesky waves. Stay in the boat. You SHALL make it to the other side.

Let’s embrace the journey, eh?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: In case no one has told you today: I love you. So does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

For such a time as this.

We have been chosen.

For such a time as this.

We have been called.

For such a time as this.

We have been challenged.

For such a time as this.

Life is what WE make it. Let’s make it a good one in our corner of the world.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Spread some love today. Spread some joy today. Spread some hope today. Be the awesome wonder that you are.

Beloveds, if you are reading these words, The Universe is calling you. What shall your answer be? Help me spread some love. Share this piece with at least one person, eh

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Move.

I’m ready.

I’m ready to move forward. I just don’t know which direction to face.

Do I go left? Do I turn right? Do I yield? Do I stop and wait?

Ack.

EVERYTHING in me wants to MOVE. My heart wants to go somewhere. She always has. I have been afraid of her. She is afraid of nothing. She is ready to do whatever it takes.

I don’t want to disappoint her. I want to make her proud.

I’m ready to move…FORWARD. I have no idea what’s up ahead. I’m ready to find out.

Are you? It’s time for us to move in 2025. Let’s go, beloveds. We got thangs to do.

Move. FORWARD.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Let’s gooooooooo!!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I have questions.

I have questions:

Can I?

Should I?

Will they?

Will He?

Won’t they?

What if…?

Ah, beloveds, questions have rousted me out of fitful dreams. I have so many of them now.

Can’t I?

Would they?

Do they?

How can it?

Do you know? If so, let me know. 2024 left so much loss. 2025 beckons. It winks. It whispers there is much joy to be found there.

Ah, beloveds, what if I can’t?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Keep going. Take your questions with you! We have much too much to do to sit here wondering…

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Leave it there.

Past mistakes.

Leave them there.

In the past.

The past lives only in our minds.

Wrong choices.

You were wrong.

Forgive yourself.

Move on.

Right what you can.

Let the rest, rest in the past.

Leave it there.

Chances not taken.

Those chances can no longer be taken.

Walk away.

Move away from the regret.

Leave it there.

asking for A Friend,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Leave it there. Move on….

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

What if you did?

What if you did?

What an amazing thought!

Try.

See what happens!

What if you DID?!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: What IF we DID, beloveds?! Let’s try. Let’s find out. Some of us WILL!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Create a safe space.

Create a safe space.

A space where others can be themselves.

Even you. Especially you.

Create a safe space.

A space where folk are free to share THEIR feelings without you getting all up in YOUR feelings.

Create a soft landing.

A spot where others can lay down their shame/guilt.

Even you. Especially you.

Create a soft landing.

A spot where folk can lay down THEIR burden without you feeling as though they were a burden.

Create a haven.

An oasis where others can trust you with their dreams/fears.

Even you. Especially you.

Create an oasis.

An opportunity for others to spread their wings and fly.

Even you. Especially you.

Create an oasis.

An opportunity where folk can be THEIR best self giving you the chance to be YOUR best self.

Create a safe space, beloveds.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: We are all a part of life’s tapestry. 🥰💝

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Set the standard. BE the standard.

Have you ever heard the saying that says “the standard is the standard?”

Mike Tomlin, the head coach for The Pittsburgh Steelers, uses this phrase all the time. It’s true. The standard IS the standard.

This means that there IS no excuse for not getting things done. You get things done. Period. You do things to the highest order. Period. You do things with excellence. Period.

I am doing my utmost to set the standard in my life. Period. I am doing my level best to BE the standard. Period.

We all have the opportunity to have and make a tremendous impact. Get to it…lol.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Your life matters. Let the folk in your orbit know their lives matter as well. Asking for A Friend.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Life is a gift. YOUR life is a gift.

Life is a gift.

YOUR life is a gift.

Nuff said, beloveds. Now, get out there and present your priceless self to the world.

Enough hiding!

Enough judging yourself!

Enough making yourself a transaction!

You are precious. You have no need to bow your head in shame.

Ah, beloveds. Look up. Stand tall. Walk proudly. Stride unapologetically.

There is sooooooooooooo much awesomeness in you. There is so much love in you. There is so much strength in you.

Life is a gift. YOUR life is a gift. Never forget this.

keeping you up in prayer,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I have been saying extra prayers for all. Hang in there. Help IS on the way.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

We were born to live.

We were born to live.

Most folks spend their lives waiting to die. Still others are afraid to live. They spent their lives contemplating death and loss.

I’m doing my best to live in the moment. I’m doing my best to seize as many moments as I can. I’m doing my best to love as many people as I can.

I’m no longer concerned with whether i’m loved in return. I love me. God loves me. My family loves me.

I plan on spending the rest of my days trying to get as many people as I can to live. Life is so short.

I stopped by to remind you to LIVE, beloveds. Make 2025 something special.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: LIVE. Seize these moments and shake as much joy and happiness out of them as you can. You got this. As do I.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!