I went in search of my humor.

I went in search my humor. I found her underneath a bushel of pain. I replaced pain with joy. Then, added ten bushels, of joy. On top of joy, I added a billion dollops,  of thanksgivings. To top things off, I added a lifetime of Jesus’s love.

Ah, God.

Nuff said. I love me some You. Jesus, thanks for being My Bestie. Be much with me and my fellow man/woman/them.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Ah, beloveds, be well this day. Enjoy your day. Grab ahold to your humor. You’ll need it to wade through the hard work. Find reasons to crack yourself up.

NOTHING has  been funny the last few weeks. I keep telling myself that I am NOT alone. I remember that my steps are ordered. I am protected. I got this.  So do you.

Being a piece of watermelon cracks me up. Being a sista, I can’t tell you how many times, over the years, I have been referenced by chicken and watermelon. I don’t take offense. I say extra prayers for the folk who don’t care for someone who looks like me. I say this purposefully to make even angry folks smile. They need love the most.

Let’s endeavour to love one another. Be encouraged. 🤗❤🥰😁🙏

I’m so very thankful and grateful to be alive. Be encouraged and proud of how far you have come!

We got this. Enjoy every moment. Especially, the hardest ones. You build your crown 👑 during these times, among the hardest of days.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Morning Aspirations- Tuesday 7/14/2026

💙 Morning Aspiration — For Me
“Today I will be patient with myself. Every word I practice, every thought I share, and every small step I take is helping me grow stronger.”


💌 Morning Encouragement — For you:
“Your journey does not have to look like someone else’s journey. Small steps still move you forward. Keep believing in your growth.”

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🌈 Dream Building Corner

My dream: To run. To write with my right hand. To speak clearly again.


One step I can take today:  Reading aloud. Completing Physical Therapy today. Taking today moment by moment.





💌 Follower Reflection

For everyone:

“What is one challenge you are learning to overcome?”


💙 Daily Love Challenge

For Me:

Today I will show myself love by being patient with my progress.

My action: I will take each circumstance in stride.


For Followers:

Show kindness or encouragement to someone today.

Your action:



🏆 Daily Victory

My victory today:


Something I am proud of: Today, I worked with my Occupational Therapist to plan the next step in my recovery process.



Progress Check-In

For Me:

Something I improved: Singing a full song outloud.


Something I learned: A grounding exercise to help get me back in the present when I have been anxious.


For Followers:

One step I took toward growth:



🌙 Evening Reflection

What did I learn today? To cut myself some slack!

What progress did I notice? I sung loudly a d awfully awful

What am I thankful for? My life.


🙏 Evening Prayer

Lord, thank You for walking with me today. Help me continue growing, healing, and finding my voice.

Amen.

✨ Evening Aspiration

“My journey is still moving forward. Every small step matters.”

Good morning!

Beloveds, starting today, I am including aspirations, reflections, a love challenge, progress check in, Evening Reflection, Evening Aspiration, and short words to assist in encouragement, edification, and love. I encourage you to join  me and share how you are also finding your voice one word and step at a time.Be encouraged this day

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: My progress check in  etc will be from the day before. Join me and share your victories etc. I love you and so does He!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Good morning.

Good morning.

loving me some you,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Have an amazing day!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

True that!

OMG! This is so me!

tickled this morning,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Hehe. Love you…

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Cheers to you, beloveds.

Here’s to love. Here’s to hope. Here’s to the best of you for bringing out the best of me.

Ah, beloveds, you make want to:

Love harder.

Give more.

Laugh alway.

Rejoice evermore.

Pray, for all,without ceasing.

Cheers to you, beloveds. You bring out the best in me. I endeavour to:

Give my all.

Empty myself.

I promise to love you so long as I have breath. There is nothing I ask of. You owe me nothing. Take all that I have. You are welcome to the best of me.

Ah, beloveds,  you are:

Altogether, lovely.

Loved, outrageously.

Cherished, eternally.

God loves you. As, do I. Be encouraged. Be loved. Be confident. Be content. Be still.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note:😎👍🥰😁🙏

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Be gentle with yourself.

Ah, beloveds,  you much too hard on yourself.

Cut yourself some slack.

Give yourself some dap/credit!

You give your all.

On the daily. And, daily, you:

Give.

Love.

Try.

You give the best of yourself. EVERY day.  And, every day, you show yourself true those you love.

You are:

Far from  perfect.

Closer to who you hope to be.

Be gentle with yourself. Let Love/love in to love on you.

Ah, beloveds, you are deserving. You are! As, am I.

Be gentle with yourself…🥰❤🤗🙏

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Have a beautiful Sunday!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Before all is said and done, I SHALL have my miracle.

I mean to have my miracle. How? Beats me.

I mean to run. How? Beats me.

I mean to lift BOTH of my hands. How? Beats me.

I mean to run headlong and headfirst into love. How? Beats me.

I mean to pursue, find  and maintain financial freedom.  How? Beats me.

Before all is said and done, I SHALL have my miracle(s). How? Beats me!

determined,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: God said it. I BELIEVE/BELIEVE IN Him. That’s more than enough for me. How about you?

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I just stopped by to say.

I just stopped by to say:

I love you.

I root for you.

I cheer you on.

I’ll lift 💪 you up.

I’ll have your back.

I’ll walk with you.

Pray for and with you.

I’ll dance with you. 💃 🕺

I’ll fight for you.

I just stopped by to say…

here,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You still can.

All those dreams you thought you  could no longer do.

You still can.

All the things you lost that you thought you could never get back.

You can still have.

All the things you thought were meant for everyone else.

You can still do.

All the things you thought would go to everyone else.

You can still get.

Beloveds, life is what we make it.  We can:

Be.

Have.

Do.

Get.

We are limited only by our:

Choices.

Actions.

Inaction.

Let me say this for everyone in the back row:

You still can.

Nuff Said!

Hopefully expecting,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: What the world 🌎 are you waiting! Get going!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Focus on what you CAN do.

Tonight has been 😭 sobering. For the past few days, I have been reconciling all the things I can no longer do.

Recently, I had to fill out a million page of synopsis detailing everything I can not do in order for Social Security to determine if I am eligible for assistance.

If so, I can plan and prepare to apply for supported living. This way, I can have my own apartment and still have 24 hours a day support staff. I want to be independent.

I wanted to take a shower. Alone. I can’t. I don’t know this made me want to cry. Usually, I am pretty philosophical. Here lately, I find fear wanting to rise up and snatch my joy. I dare not let it in. I have too much to do.

I choose to laugh. I choose to look forward to a future that I can STILL have.

Focus on the wonderful life just waiting for us to engage with.

Whatever your current lot, beloveds, remember that all is not lost, okay? Okay.

Be encouraged.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Stamina won’t permit me to stay here longer. Somebody take over encouraging the world. I sure could use some words about now…*sigh*

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!