BEGINNING AGAIN DOES NOT ERASE BEFORE.

MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 21, 2026

BEGINNING AGAIN DOES NOT ERASE BEFORE
BEGINNING AGAIN DOES NOT ERASE BEFORE

Beloveds,

Late but here!…lol

I know something about beginning again.

I also know beginning again can sound prettier in motivational language than it feels in an actual life.

Sometimes beginning again is exciting.

Sometimes it is infuriating.

Sometimes you are beginning again because you chose something new.

Sometimes life chose it for you.

Those are not the same experience.

I do not need to insult the woman I was before in order to honor the woman I am becoming now.

I do not have to call the old life worthless because the new life requires courage.

I can grieve what changed and still participate in what remains.

I can miss what my body used to do and still love the body carrying me today.

I can remember an easier voice and still claim the voice that is mine now.

I can say, “This is hard,” without translating that sentence into, “This is hopeless.”

Isaiah 43:19 says, “Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it?” KJV

My faith tells me God can work in the new.

It does not require me to pretend the old did not matter.

And Beloveds who do not believe as I do, there is room for you in this conversation too.

Beginning again belongs to human beings, not only believers.

🔑 The key is not erasing yesterday.

The key is refusing to let yesterday be the only place where your life was allowed to be real.

You matter to me.

What are you beginning again without apologizing for how much the first version mattered?

Asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe

Keep doing you!

Beloveds,

I had to stop by to encourage someone. Starting with me.

I’m still me. This stroke keeps cutting up by I am fighting back. My face keeps changing with the droops.

I’m still  cute!

My dreams are STILL before me. So, are yours. Stop feeling sorry for your lot and seize these moments.

I don’t feel disabled. I feel capable. I feel excited. I feel exhausted. I feel everything all at once.

I feel…

Ah.

Aha!

Don’t be ashamed of how you look. Embrace ALL of you.

We go thangs to do, beloveds! Let’s get to loving someone. Starting with me.

Cassandra

WAKE UP WITH FAITH — Listen Before You Start Your Day

Cassandra

Pat Benatar – Love Is A Battlefield (Official Music Video)

Pat Benetar is HER!

Singing for you, big bro.

Cassandra

Count It All Joy

Beloveds,

Life is short. 

I love this song. It’s about understanding that God won’t give us more than we can bear. W everything really will be alright.

Fixing to have a concert to celebrate my big bro life.

RIH, big bro.

Be encouraged!

loving me some you,

Cassandra

I miss ME!

I miss ME.

Nuff said.

Cassandra

I hate it takes 15 minutes to cover myself with a damn blanket!

I miss going to the bathroom in a few minutes instead of at least an hour!

I miss driving my 🚗!

I miss mom!

I miss my twin

Now I am too sick to lay my big brother to rest!

Shit!

Cassandra

THE PROMISE YOU MADE YOURSELF — Brutal Discipline Motivational Speech

Cassandra

When Black People RUN… PLEASE RUN TOO -‘They Know Something You Don’t?…

😂 HAHAHA!

This is so black people! I needed a laugh. Humor, people. Can’t we enjoy one another’s culture already. 😂🥰💃🏿❤️

Motivational Speech —- I FAILED — AND IT MADE ME STRONGER

This video has me fired up!!

Life is short, beloveds. Get out there and live.

Cassandra

P.S. I have added a ton of motivation, love, humor, music etc to the Abba Playlist. I update it frequently with all kinds of videos etc to keep you company. Let me know what you want to see there.

Asking for A Friend…

Be encouraged, beloveds. I love you.

Beloveds,

Just stopped by to encourage someone. Starting with me.

My heart is still. Quiet. Oddly, so. I don’t know if grief is waiting to pounce from it’s hiding place…* sigh *

Pain and this virus is keeping me company these last days.

How are you, doing? How’s your heart?

Please reach  out for support. For, love. For, hugs…

Can a sista get some care today.

asking for myself,

Cassandra