Note: Be encouraged. If you are feeling a tad inadequate, join the bazillion others who have felt the same.
I am feeling like such an idiot. I spent forever yesterday trying to make a motivational video. I finished said video. I posted said video. Nobody seemed to have given two damns. I wanted to say “never again” and kick the 🌎 world to the curb. I can’t. I promised to care no matter what. I care on…*😳 embarrassed sigh*.
Be encouraged. Keep on doing you. As for me, I feel inadequate. Today. Ah, God. Yikes…
Note: You are not responsible for others, beloveds. We love, yes. Yet, we must allow others to do and to be themselves.
We can’t control love. All we can do is to give love. We ought not handle care carelessly. All we can do is care. We can not control what others do. All we can do is respond with thoughtfulness, care, and love.
Even if we have to walk away from those who choose to treat our love and care in a reckless manner.
Life is short. Cut the strings for/from those you love. If you feel as though you must tie someone down, to “earn/have” their love, let them go. Your strings are your answer and their prison. You want partners, not hostages, eh?
Good morning, beloveds. And, it IS a GOOD morning!
I just stopped ’round to speak life to those who have been feeling like they have been dismissed and/or not counted. This is not so.
You have been set apart. You have NOT been set aside. There is a difference.
I used to feel like an outsider. I used to feel like I was on the outside of life looking in at others enjoying their lives.
I felt like a kid with their face pressed against a glass. which was separating them from some wonderful goodies..
I no longer feel that way. now I’m just waiting my turn. I may be asked to take the stage. In the meantime, I’m going to have a good time being a stagehand and helping out where I can. I will help someone else. I will be in the audience for someone else. I will give them a standing ovation for their try.
And if I never get called to the stage, I will still be grateful. I will be thankful I was part of the show in any capacity. I don’t have to be the spotlight. I don’t have to be in the spotlight. I will happily hold the life for someone else.
I love writing. I love encouraging people. I love praying for people. I no longer worry about if others are receiving my words and my care. I send them anyway. My joy is in the writing My joy is in trying to connect. My joy is in the try. The rest is merely icing on the cake.
Life has not discarded you. You have been set aside for this time. This is your time. Take the stage. Build a stage. Clean the stage. Just do something. Just be available. Life will come calling. How shall you answer?
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: If you are feeling discarded about now, get ready. Life is fixing to open up to you. You have not been forgotten. You are just bring prepared. Enjoy the respite. Enjoy your day.
I’m trying to NOT throw my laptop out the nearest window.
I have spent a frustrating evening trying to teach myself CapCut and Canva. All I have managed to do was make myself want to cut up on some Canva!!!
Alas, I had to tell my feels to quit acting a fool long enough for me to tell you to be encouraged.
We got this. In the meantime, beloveds, click on the link above and be encouraged. Let me know what you think in the comments. Please/thanks. How else will I learn unless I can use yall as my helpless victims, er, helpers as I do my best to BE a light?
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: In case no one has told you today: I love you. So does He.
I have been getting up every morning and preparing like I am about to start my new job.
I am anticipating.
I am rejoicing.
I am preparing for new challenges.
While you wait, beloveds, be sure to do so with anticipation. Leave dread in the past.
The unknown does NOT have to be a frightful thing. Let’s make it a delight, eh?
This day was made for us. Let’s choose to rejoice and be glad in it. Things may happen. Things WILL happen. So be it. We shall also be happening to our day!
It feels wonderful to look at the day with joy, not dread, I’m grateful for my life. I’m thankful for what I have. I’m using all that I have to make 2025 an amazing one.
Life is going to happen, whether you wanted to or not. Enjoy your life. Look up on your moments with anticipation. Every day is a gift. Unwrap it with glee.
The cold here is melting my brain 🧠. Yep, it’s sooooooo cold my mind has numbed.🥶
I had some inspiration rattling around, but it has to thaw out. In the meantime, I just wanted to encourage someone.
Tik Tok and the internet is full of nothing but gloom. Don’t despair. Live your life. Life is more than Tik Tok. Put down the phone. Since you have the phone 📱, call someone and have an actual conversation!
When haters try to give you their love, show them the door.🚪
Nuff said. Stop wasting your life on what clowns have to say.
We have much toooooooooooo much to do, beloveds. Don’t waste a second of 2025 on the haters. They have nothing better to do because they have nothing to do. We got thangs to do, remember?
doing thangs with you, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: There will ALWAYS be folk who will tell you what you can never have, where you can and can not go, what you can or can not do. Let them talk. You are much too busy to listen.
Above all, beloveds, don’t EVER add your voice to those of the naysayers. We are often our biggest critics, aren’t we?
Champion yourself. Celebrate your try. Don’t worry about the outcome. Enjoy playing in the game. Salute the winner. Even if it’s not you!
We only get this ONE life. LIVE. I love me some you. Am sure some may wonder why I tell complete strangers that I love them. You are NOT strangers to me. You are my brothers. You are my sisters. I love you. So does He.
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