Month: December 2023

Face you. Embrace you.

Face you.

Embrace you.

Love you.

You won’t always love what you see.

At times, we do not reflect our best selves. It’s called being human. Us humans can be real jerks and dummies.

I know. I know. The world likes to lie to you and have you all up in your feels by allowing you to think you can be a jerk and a dummy with impunity. You can’t. Nowadays, folk appear not to want to be called out when there act right is not acting right.

I appreciate it when my accountability partner calls me out and let’s me know to keep doing what is right and standing on my faith whether I feel like it or not.

I have been going through some tough days and admit I allowed tired and fear to keep me from speaking in FAITH. I agreed with the lies and dumbness that this tough patch would never pass. It will.

Even if it lingers, beloveds, I CHOOSE to remain joyful, hopeful and PRESENT.

Do NOT allow fatigue permission to move apathy and fear into your peaceful space.

Reclaim your time. Reclaim your peace. Reclaim your hope.

Be encouraged. We got this.

Come on, beloveds, we got thangs to do.

doing thangs with you,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I love you. God loves you. The Universe fights for you. Be encouraged. One step. One step. One step…

Stop giving up your you time.

I was frustrated.

I wanted to write.

I kept allowing myself to be distracted by phone calls.

Ack.

I decided to choose me and to stop giving away my time in order to accommodate someone else’s time.

Life is short.

Stop giving up your time for someone else’s time. Do the things for your life that you know need to be done. If you have some time left over then give that time away. Time is too precious to keep giving away.

I rested today. All day. I only got one piece out this morning. I chose me. Now I am choosing to keep my promise and get my other two pieces done for the day.

I just want to check on you before I enjoy some Sunday Night 🏈 Football.

I am enjoying some old school music from the seventies. I am getting down on it.😂

Be encouraged, beloveds.

This weekend is going to awesome!!! How do I know? Because, my attitude determines how my days shall be.

Keep being you. Reach out to someone. These can be some lonely days. I hear ☕ calling me. Come join us.

enjoying some me,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Remember you are not mistakes. Make a ton of them this week. This is how we grow. Tell your critics thanks for providing you with so much inspiration and determination!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Your obstacles are not obstacles.

Your obstacles are not obstacles.

They are:

Opportunities to grow.

Chances to overcome.

Moments to improve.

Time to shine.

Greatness to live.

Wins waiting to happen.

Routes to strength.

Precursors to satisfaction.

Don’t fear the hard, beloveds.

Don’t grow too weary at the never ending obstacles.

Smile. They are the introduction to the greatest story ever told!

Stay in the race.

Endure.

Embrace.

Overcome.

Ah.

Aha!

overcoming with you,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: You can do this! You shall. Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being… YOU

LOL.

Until we are not nuts, let us continue pushing upwards, shall we beloveds?

LOL!

striving still and always,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: This has been a tough year. Yet, I grow. Tired, yet resilent. I fight on. As shall you, eh? Asking for A Friend. The world NEEDS our nuttiness! We got thangs to do, beloveds. Let’s be about being about them. Remember your WHY.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!!!!!!!!!

Nuff said.

You are all of these things and more, beloveds.

So am I.

Sometimes, we just need to be reminded, don’t we?

Love someone today.

Starting with you.

This has been a long year hasn’t it’? Time for us to rest and get recharged to end the year on a fantastically fabulous note!

You have done your all. That IS enough. Let’s stop giving ourselves such a hard time about these dumb dreams that are being sooooooooooooo stubborn.

Let’s keep on being about being about it.

Let’s keep on doing thangs.

Let’s keep on living WITH intentions.

Let’s keep taking ownership and telling our feels to shut up and sit down somewhere.

Let’s keep telling apathy ha! and to kick rocks.

Let’s keep on loving and being faithful.

Let’s keep walking with authority and in our integrity.

Let’s keeping doing right simply because it IS right.

Let’s keep on laughing.

Let’s keep on rejoicing.

Let’s keep on living.

Let’s keep on being.

Let’s keep on embracing hard.

Let’s keep on happening to our lives.

Let’s keep on…

keeping on with you,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I am gettin my pieces done. I am keeping my promises to me. Yes, it hurts when silence echoes through a room we wish filled with sound. Yes, it hurts when dreams tarry too long. Yes, it hurts when our try ends up in a heap of a whole lotta nothingness.

Yet, ah, ow and oh! Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU

Because of them: Face your fear(s).

Face your fear(s).

Don’t get down on yourself, because of them.

Don’t berate yourself, because of them.

Don’t dismiss yourself, because of them.

Because of them, beloveds, you SHALL overcome and grow and thrive.

Because of them, beloveds, you will learn much about you and the world around you.

Because of them, beloveds, the diamond within, without and all around you, SHALL be revealed.

BECAUSE of them.

Be encouraged.

overcoming with you,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I have been learning much. BECAUSE of my fears. I am asking myself a lot of whys. I am cutting myself a lot of slack. I am giving myself extra love. BECAUSE of my fears. I am talking about them, acknowledging them. I am giving them to God and sharing with Him how they make me feel.

I told myself, just today, in fact, I would NOT allow myself to give up on me because I was tired. Or, because I was afraid. Or, because I don’t know how to make my dreams come true. Ack!!

The more I try, and fail, the more I want to try. I am enjoying my days. Even the hard parts of it.

Keep going, beloveds. You will be okay. Sometimes, we just need someone to tell us everything will be okay.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU.

You are enough.

I just don’t feel enough today.

Why my pieces are late. I almost did not write today.

I write to keep my promise to myself. I’m doing my best to keep my promise to me.

I wonder today if my efforts will lead anywhere or be of any comfort. Doesn’t feel like it today.

Ah, beloveds, I soooooooooooo desperately want to allow my feels to run this day. I want to run from today.

I’m tired.

My try just does NOT feel as though it will EVER be enough.

Crap.

So, I wrote. Tired. I try. Tired. I’m tired of running away from the fact I am 55 and still chasing down my dreams.

Yet, I am enough.

I am.

Enough.

As are you.

You are enough.

YOU are enough.

You ARE enough.

You are ENOUGH.

YOU ARE ENOUGH!

Enough already, fear/doubt!

We have had enough of you!

believing in me,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Get excited, beloveds. Disappointment ONLY visits those who are worthy. Disappointment ONLY shows her face to those who simply REFUSE to give up. Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU

God knows I’m tired.

I’m tired.

God knows.

God knows I’m tired.

Tired of:

The fight.

Period.

Why must life be so haaaaaaard!

Ack.

I fight on.

Why?

Because I am tired of running away when things are tooooooooooooooo hard.

I’m tired of believing for everyone’s dreams but my own.

I’m tired of comfort eating my way through grief and loss.

I’m tired of seeing my life through the limiting gaze and perspective of others.

I’m tired of pretending I’m NOT tired.

I think I shall rest today so I can continue to fight for my heart and my dreams.

tired,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: It’s okay to be tired. Rest. Get back in the game. You only lose when you give up. We got thangs to do.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU

♥ Heart check Friday.

It’s Friday.

It’s Fri-yay!

It’s about to be rest day.

Take the rest of this day to rest:

Your mind.

Wrest your mind from ALL that has been worrying you.

Wrest your heart from all that has been scaring you.

Wrest your spirit from all that has been fatiguing you.

You have done your best.

You have given your all.

Let this be enough.

Remember, you ARE enough!

Be encouraged.

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Rest.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU

When life hands you lemons, try asking for some grapes.

Have you ever had one of those days, weeks, months, years where it seemed as if all your efforts have gone in vain? Have you ever wondered what in the world did you start this or do that, in the first place? Have you ever wanted to run away from home, tired of forever having […]

When life hands you lemons, try asking for some grapes.

Beloveds, sis told me I HAD to repost this piece I did two years ago. Here goes nothing…

Be encouraged.

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Enough with the lemons already…lol.