Month: February 2024

God said so.

God: Get out there, Cassandra, and LIVE.

Me: I don’t know how.

God: So?

God: Go on ahead and dream, beloved.

Me: I don’t know how to make my dreams come true.

God: So?

God: Tell The Universe to give up your bounty.

Me: I don’t know if It will.

God: So?

God: So what, My Dear One? Get out there and LIVE. Go on ahead and dream. Tell The Universe to give up your bounty.

Me: K.

living/asking/telling,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

#HereForIt

Note: Life is short. Get out there and LIVE, beloveds. Go on ahead and dream, beloveds. Tell The Universe to give up your bounty. Why? Because God said so!🤗🥰❤🙏

Some days you just gotta say it is well.

I’m doing my best, beloveds, not to get arrested.

I find myself microphone, er, blue screwdriver in hand, bellowing ‘It Is Well’ as loud as I can legally get away with.😁😳🎶🎤😎

Life has been a bit rough lately. That’s okay. Life was just being life.

I have learned that and I’m still learning that lesson.

I have also learned and I’m still learning that there are time you just have to say it is well.

Yes, Lord, life hurts right now, but it is well with my soul!

Oh the bills keep piling up but it is well with my soul!

I’m lonely right now but it is still well with my soul!!

I don’t know how I’m gonna make it out of this messed called my life but it is well with my soul.

I don’t know how but it is well with my soul.

I don’t know when but it is still wellwith my soul.

I don’t know if I will ever see my dreams come true the way I would like them in my lifetime but it is still well with my soul.

Life is good. It is well. I will be content. I will be satisfied. I am content. I am satisfied.

waiting with contentment,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: It is well. Remember to enjoy life knowing life is not an endless battle. Yes, we have battles WITHIN life. Enjoy your life. Be encouraged. Love someone. Start with you.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Refill your heart💝: Do these three things.

I am at the self-check pump refilling my heart.

I am:

Listening to uplifting music.🤗

Watching a beautiful youtube piece with gorgeous ocean views and encouraging scriptures. 🥰

Every day, I do three things to fuel up and fill up:

Read something positive/uplifting.

Watch something positive/uplifting.

Listen to something positive/uplifting.

If I can’t get in all three, I try to do at least one of them.

EVERY DAY.

Why?

It’s crucial to maintain our heart, our mind, our soul, our body.

Otherwise, rust and buildup and weeds and all manner of things will clog up our drains and will drain us of our will!😁😂😳🙌

I’m getting refilled and my strength renewed. These past storms have been rough.

I’m still deep within a fight and storm but taking a breather to look around and remember this is but a test. From life. Of faith. I grow stronger with every willing step forward.

Ah, life. I love the living of you!

Yall are going to have to excuse me. Microphone, or, my blue screwdriver calleth!

Be encouraged. Be still and know He is God.

His and yours,

Cassandra,

🤗#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I love you.

Just when I needed you most.

Ah, hope. Thanks for coming.

Just when I needed you most.

Oh, joy. Thanks for coming.

Just when I needed you most.

Ah, love. Thanks for coming.

Just when I needed you most.

Oh, peace. Thanks for coming.

Just when I needed you most.

Ah, inspiration. Thanks for coming.

Just when I needed you most.

Oh, gratitude. Thanks for coming.

Just when I needed you most.

Ah, beloveds, I got what I need to take me through this amazing day.

Just when I needed them most.

fully prepared to take on my day,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Every challenge, every battle, every circumstance and situation is won and lost, beloveds, before you lift one finger or raise your voice.

EVERY one of them is tackled FIRST in our mind. Begin, there. Then, take the fight to that which you need to battle and or subdue.

Even if that person or thing is you. Especially if it is you!

The world has purposely sold you a bill of goods. You have been lied to. You have been told to point the blame at others. You have been coddled into believing taking accountability is for the weak.

The most courageous thing we do is when we own up to our messes and OUR choices. Even when those choices have left our lives in a mess and without much choice.

Be prepared to say ‘My bad’, apologize, clean up the mess, and keep it moving. Apologize to you, for acting a fool. Apologize to The Universe for being a pain. Apologize to God for…*shrug*…only God know what, and move forward.

STOP kicking yourself for things long past done. They are done. If you are still living the consequences of some unfortunate choice, ask for God’s Grace and keep it moving. If you have asked for forgiveness, of a thing, God said yes. HE has forgotten it. Stop bringing it up or avoiding Him because you feel judged. Let it go.

It’s time to live life in the PRESENT. Through PRESENT eyes. Not through PAST situations. Life presents us with new and fresh moments EVERY MOMENT OF OUR LIVES!

The Universe is acting and moves IN THE NOW.

Catch up!

Prepare your mind, in advance, then get out there and have a fantastic day. Scoop up plenty of hope, live and joy and sprinkle liberally throughout your day.

Love someone. Take a pebble from someone else’s mountain. Lend your shoulder to someone who is tired. Give an ear to someone who needs to talk. Hold someone in need of care.

Life is short. Get out there and live.

encouraged,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: In case no one has told you: I love you.

Repeat after me.

Repeat after me:

It is well – It is well. Keep trying.

I got this – You got this. Be confident.

I can do this- You can do this.

It is well. You got this. You can do it.

Now get out there and do it!

doing it with you,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Every now and then we just need to tell ourselves we can do it. We can. We will. Be encouraged.

Encouragement never gets old. It needs to be given and used liberally. Don’t be stingy with Encouragement. It appreciates being passed around.🥰

You can lift your burden by lightening the load of another.

An amazing thing happened, beloveds, when I decided to pray for all who were heavy laden.

As I prayed for others, I felt my own burdens lifted away. Or, maybe I forgot about them as I strained to lift the care of others to God to take care of.

Be encouraged. You don’t struggle alone.

Yesterday, I looked at my bank account and cried.😳

Today, I look at my bank account and 😂 laugh.

Be encouraged, beloveds. You are loved and you are not alone.

Cry if you need to. Laugh because you must. Life is short. Embrace it.

You CAN. You WILL. WE HAVE TO!

carrying your cares for you to He Who Cares,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Nuff said.

I promise me.

Will you be there for me?

I promise.

Will you give your all

I promise.

Will you keep going even when you’re tired?

I promise.

Will you love me even when others won’t.

I promise.

Will you hold tight to your dreams even when you feel like they will never come true

I promise.

Will you remember to be good to yourself even when you are going through tough times

I promise.

Will you keep giving the world every bit of your effort even if the world never gives a thing back to you in return

I promise.

Will you remember that you’re only human and that you’re doing the best that you know

I promise.

Will you embrace every moment no matter how good or bad they appear to be

I promise.

Will you remember that it’s okay to be loud and also okay to be silent.

I promise.

Will you remember that you are loved and that you are not alone

I promise.

Will you remember to cut yourself some slack at times

I promise.

Will you remember that nothing can ever separate you from the love of God

I promise.

That’s good enough for me. I love you.

*Cassandra turns from the mirror and gets on with being about being about it.*

here,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Beloveds, you are my reason why. I live to let folk know they are loved and not alone. Why? It is my calling. It is my joy. It is my burden. It is God’s Ask of me.

I don’t know why God would ask a goofhead like me. I am much too loud. I am much too clumsy. I rarely know how or what to do, it seems like, to me.

Yet, God called me to love this world. There are days when I would love to tell Him to get someone else for this thankless job.🥰😳😁😳

You are my dilemma, beloveds. Doing what I love pays me nothing. I can’t pay my bills blogging and yakking with you. Yet, it’s all I have dreamed of for more than 30 years.

Long before there was an internet my heart desired to speak to the world in this manner.

Life, er, bills demand my time and efforts and scoff at my desire. Just the other day, I asked God to leave me be to live a small life and let me put in my time at work and help me to live in this small space so I can forget about the world. I can’t afford to love the word the way I long to and it hurts too much to keep living this unrealized life.

Ah, beloveds, I can’t quit you. Your heart is much too important. YOU are much too important.

So, I shall keep giving the best of me. Too as many as I can reach. That I could make each of your dreams come true, I would. T then, keep moving towards your dreams.

Someone do me a favor and ask God to help a sista out. She is tired. She doesn’t know how. She doesn’t know who. God does and He ain’t telling!

Savor every moment: Grateful for the hard.

I’m grateful.

Forever grateful.

For the hard.

For, the hard has walked me up and over many a mountain.

I savor each moment.

I relish every opportunity.

Opportunity to:

Stand firm.

Reaffirm my faith.

Choose.

Try.

Win.

Lose.

Grow.

Weaken.

Strengthen.

Hope.

Rejoice.

Laugh.

Cry.

Question.

Listen.

Hear.

Feel.

Express.

Ah.

Aha!

I’m looking forward to The Superbowl. I am going to savor EVERY play. In Superbowls past, I would pick a side and then live and die by what I wanted to see happen.

If my chosen team won, I was happy. If not, I was annoyed for days. It felt as though I had lost. It was MY team. So, we were supposed to win.

Now, I salute the combatants and root for an awesome game. Okay, I lean a bit more towards Patrick Mahomes, but don’t tell.

Enjoy your life, beloveds. Our life is OUR SUPERBOWL! We don’t get another. Best we put our best self into our Superbowl and gather as many experiences as we can.

Speaking of The Superbowl…

back after the game,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: 🏈♥️🥰

You have already won.

The Superbowl is over.

Someone won.

Someone loss.

One team had at least one point more than the other.

Consequently, someone won. Somebody else lost.

Yet, BOTH sides won something.

What did he/she/they win?

In winning, did they really win?

In losing, did they really lose?

Ah, beloveds, great questions!

It all depends upon the point of view and the reason the game was initially played.

If just for the 🏆 trophy, the team with at least one more point won.

If just for the adoration and accolades of men, the winning 🥇 team has already lost. See, folk will adore you ONLY as THEY think you performed. If you won this way. If you performed that way. Then, you may be given their brief adoration.

If for the joy of joining a group to attempt a great task, you have won regardless of outcome!

If your eyes have read to this point, I have already won my Superbowl! I have perhaps touched the heart, of another precious soul. If your eyes land on my hashtag you will have heard that your life matters to me.🤗❤😁😊🎤

You are my why.

Be encouraged.

You are loved and not alone.

winning regardless of the score,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

#HereForIt

Note: I no longer worry about the score. I could care less who gets the trophy. I don’t even need an adoring crowd. I know, now, that I am loved and that I am NOT alone. God loves and walks with me. This is enough for me. Yes, I long for a posse of my own who will keep me uplifted with their love and care.

In the meantime, beloveds, I shall be your posse of one. If you be a posse of mine, let me know. I need your words. Relationship is a two way street. Also, I get bored talking just to me.🤣😊🥰❤🎤

Yaya!!!

Yaya!!!

It’s Superbowl Sunday!!!

🙌🤯🥰🥸🏈♥️

My heart is torn. I want both teams to win.

Ack!

Okay, normally, I would have some clever way to relate the Superbowl to something inspiring that will encourage you to keep on keeping on.

The problem is that it’s Superbowl Sunday and I could give two hoots about anyone until AFTER the game.

Til then, someone pass out some love and care whilst I holler at the 📺 television for four hours.

Remember to get in some me time. Also, be sure and leave stress outside. Get ready to ENJOY your Monday and have a blast with your day.

If worry is working your last nerve, put worry to work by taking a walk or take out the trash an leave worry in the trash bin. Then, get about enjoying your life.

Woooooooooooohhhhoooooooooooooo!

You may join in my festivities ONLY if you bring snacks and yell appropriately loud at the television.

hopeful,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I told grief and hard they were NOT going to ruin my Superbowl. Don’t let what goes on around you ☔ rain on your parade. Even if it does, play in the puddles…