Month: January 2025

Do both: Make a decision already!

I was driving myself up ten walls over my chili or tacos debate.

I was hankering for tacos.

I was remembering how delish the last pot of chili turned out.

Chili? Tacos?

Tacos? Chili?

Suddenly, a brilliant idea proffered the greatest solution of all time: Do both!

Ah.

Aha!

I had two pounds of ground  beef. I used one for tacos. I made chili with the others…*slaps self upside the head*.

I wasted days on something that had a simple solution.

I have spent the week enjoying tacos and chili.

Sometimes the only thing to do is just to make a decision. Do something. Or decide not to do the thing. Get out of the middle of the road. You may get run over!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I am making the changes in 2025 that I needed to have made in 2024. I allowed the fear of the unknown to keep me from making a decision. Never again. The unknown does not have to be scary. I am embracing the unknown and living in the meantime.

Make it happen in 2025. don’t worry about failing. You will. When failure happens, get up and try again. We are not our failures. We are not failures. We are magnificent human beings. Let’s BE magnificent. Asking for A Friend.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I feel inadequate. Today.

I feel inadequate.

Today.

I feel helpless.

Just this minute.

I feel restless.

For tomorrow.

I feel lonely.

Right now.

I feel hopeful.

All the time.

I feel…

I feel!

Ah.

Aha!

feeling everything at once,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Be encouraged. If you are feeling a tad inadequate, join the bazillion others who have felt the same.

I am feeling like such an idiot. I spent forever yesterday trying to make a motivational video. I finished said video. I posted said video. Nobody seemed to have given two damns. I wanted to say “never again” and kick the 🌎 world to the curb. I can’t. I promised to care no matter what. I care on…*😳 embarrassed sigh*.

Be encouraged. Keep on doing you. As for me, I feel inadequate. Today. Ah, God. Yikes…



One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You are not responsible.

You are not responsible.

For my happiness.

Then again, I am not responsible for yours.

You are not responsible.

For my choices.

Then again, I am not responsible for yours.

You are not responsible.

To right my wrong(s).

Then again, I am not responsible for yours.

You are not responsible.

For my feelings.

Then again, I am not responsible for yours!

taking ownership of me,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: You are not responsible for others, beloveds. We love, yes. Yet, we must allow others to do and to be themselves.

We can’t control love. All we can do is to give love. We ought not handle care carelessly. All we can do is care. We can not control what others do. All we can do is respond with thoughtfulness, care, and love.

Even if we have to walk away from those who choose to treat our love and care in a reckless manner.

Life is short. Cut the strings for/from those you love. If you feel as though you must tie someone down, to “earn/have” their love, let them go. Your strings are your answer and their prison. You want partners, not hostages, eh?

Have an amazing weekend.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You have been set apart. You have NOT been set aside.

Good morning, beloveds. And, it IS a GOOD morning!

I just stopped ’round to speak life to those who have been feeling like they have been dismissed and/or not counted. This is not so.

You have been set apart. You have NOT been set aside. There is a difference.

I used to feel like an outsider. I used to feel like I was on the outside of life looking in at others enjoying their lives.

I felt like a kid with their face pressed against a glass. which was separating them from some wonderful goodies..

I no longer feel that way. now I’m just waiting my turn. I may be asked to take the stage. In the meantime, I’m going to have a good time being a stagehand and helping out where I can. I will help someone else. I will be in the audience for someone else. I will give them a standing ovation for their try.

And if I never get called to the stage, I will still be grateful. I will be thankful I was part of the show in any capacity. I don’t have to be the spotlight. I don’t have to be in the spotlight. I will happily hold the life for someone else.

I love writing. I love encouraging people. I love praying for people. I no longer worry about if others are receiving my words and my care. I send them anyway. My joy is in the writing My joy is in trying to connect. My joy is in the try. The rest is merely icing on the cake.

Life has not discarded you. You have been set aside for this time. This is your time. Take the stage. Build a stage. Clean the stage. Just do something. Just be available. Life will come calling. How shall you answer?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: If you are feeling discarded about now, get ready. Life is fixing to open up to you. You have not been forgotten. You are just bring prepared. Enjoy the respite. Enjoy your day.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I forgot to be sad.

I was so focused on loving folk.

I forgot to be sad.

I was so intent on sharing my heart.

I forgot to be mad.

I was so determined to love the whole damned world.

I remembered why I was glad.

Life is short. Love someone. Starting with you.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Life brings all kinds of things with. It doesn’t HAVE to be sad. What are you DOING with what life has wrought you today?…lol.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You have the power.

https://www.capcut.com/view/7463264174555578885?workspaceId=7454145451684708358

I’m trying to NOT throw my laptop out the nearest window.

I have spent a frustrating evening trying to teach myself CapCut and Canva. All I have managed to do was make myself want to cut up on some Canva!!!

Alas, I had to tell my feels to quit acting a fool long enough for me to tell you to be encouraged.

We got this. In the meantime, beloveds, click on the link above and be encouraged. Let me know what you think in the comments. Please/thanks. How else will I learn unless I can use yall as my helpless victims, er, helpers as I do my best to BE a light?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: In case no one has told you today: I love you. So does He.


One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Anticipate while you wait.

I have been getting up every morning and preparing like I am about to start my new job.

I am anticipating.

I am rejoicing.

I am preparing for new challenges.

While you wait, beloveds, be sure to do so with anticipation. Leave dread in the past.

The unknown does NOT have to be a frightful thing. Let’s make it a delight, eh?

This day was made for us. Let’s choose to rejoice and be glad in it. Things may happen. Things WILL happen. So be it. We shall also be happening to our day!

It feels wonderful to look at the day with joy, not dread, I’m grateful for my life. I’m thankful for what I have. I’m using all that I have to make 2025 an amazing one.

Life is going to happen, whether you wanted to or not. Enjoy your life. Look up on your moments with anticipation. Every day is a gift. Unwrap it with glee.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: What are you looking forward to?

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Don’t allow lazy to keep you lazy in 2025.

I wanted to be lazy this morning. I told myself it was okay to sleep in.

I drug lazy out of bed in mid sentence!

I have been going to bed earlier so I can get up early and get about getting about it.

Lazy has NOT been down for this plan. Lazy so desperately wants to BE lazy. Not on my watch! Ha!

Lazy is currently complaining about washing dishes…lol.

Be sure you are not the reason your dreams are not coming true, beloveds. Wake up. Get up. Make it happen for your life.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: January is almost over. Are you squeezing out the best in every moment? You still have time. Get to it. Get a move on. We have things to do.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Heart check ♥ Wednesday.

Just checking on your heart, beloveds.

How are YOU doing? I hope your day is going well.

The cold here is melting my brain 🧠. Yep, it’s sooooooo cold my mind has numbed.🥶

I had some inspiration rattling around, but it has to thaw out. In the meantime, I just wanted to encourage someone.

Tik Tok and the internet is full of nothing but gloom. Don’t despair. Live your life. Life is more than Tik Tok. Put down the phone. Since you have the phone 📱, call someone and have an actual conversation!

Have a 🥗 salad. Follow up with chocolate 🍫…lol.

Be encouraged. Things will be okay.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: We fight on…

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

When haters try to give you their love, show them the door.🚪

When haters try to give you their love, show them the door.🚪

Nuff said. Stop wasting your life on what clowns have to say.

We have much toooooooooooo much to do, beloveds. Don’t waste a second of 2025 on the haters. They have nothing better to do because they have nothing to do. We got thangs to do, remember?

doing thangs with you,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: There will ALWAYS be folk who will tell you what you can never have, where you can and can not go, what you can or can not do. Let them talk. You are much too busy to listen.

Above all, beloveds, don’t EVER add your voice to those of the naysayers. We are often our biggest critics, aren’t we?

Champion yourself. Celebrate your try. Don’t worry about the outcome. Enjoy playing in the game. Salute the winner. Even if it’s not you!

We only get this ONE life. LIVE. I love me some you. Am sure some may wonder why I tell complete strangers that I love them. You are NOT strangers to me. You are my brothers. You are my sisters. I love you. So does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!