You don’t have to be shocking to stand out.

You don’t have to be shocking to stand out.

You don’t have to give up your integrity to be noticed.

You don’t have to change who you are to be accepted.

I was just listening to a content creator who was telling his listeners that people don’t care about those who post uplifting and productive things. He was encouraging people to stand out.

I did a piece recently talking about being different. I don’t mean being someone other than who you are. I meant that is OK to have a quirky nature, if that is your quirky nature.

That’s it. Don’t start acting like a performing seal. Don’t spend your life trying to entertain the world in order for you to get noticed. The world sees you. God sees you. Life sees you.

Life sees you. The people who actually love you sees you. And even if they don’t. You know who you are.

Keep living your truth. Keep being true to who you are. It’s OK if the world says that boring is not in. Things have a tendency to come back around. All of this hoopla and foolishness is going to get old.

I just stopped by to encourage someone. Don’t live your life amongst the noise. Allow yourself to live with quietness. Allow yourself to live with peace and joy. Allow yourself to live with the differences that come to pass.

Just because a crowd seems to be chasing foolishness right now does not mean you have to follow the crowd. Go by the beat of your own drum set. Your own mark. Blaze your own path.

Find the courage to be yourself even amongst all this noise.

I took a break from making Youtube videos and tik toks so that I could reset. It took some time, so I can re-evaluate. I took the time to see what I wanted to do. I took the time to determine what I wanted to contribute to the Youtube algorithm into this world.

I’m glad my content is not popular right now. It gave me a chance to build my words on a strong foundation. I don’t need the cheers of the crowd. I don’t need the validation from people I don’t even know.

My goal is to be a source of encouragement, empowerment and life. Yes, I want to make people laugh. Yes, I want to help people to grow. But that’s their choice.

All we can do is to present our best selves. All we can do is put ourselves out there. All we can do is put our talent out there. Our tribe will find us.

Life is what we make it. I plan on making mine a fantastic one. How about you?

Allow your love to stand out. Allow your integrity to stand out. Allow your joy to stand out. Allow your faithfulness to stand out.

Let the world call it boring. I would rather be a boring lover. Than an exciting, hateful person!

Keep on being you.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

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