Take your focus off what you fear so you can see.

I can see!

I can hear!

I can receive!

For so long, beloveds, I couldn’t see straight. I couldn’t think clearly. Why? Because ALL I had been focusing on were my fears.

I focused on what I had lost.

I focused on what I had still to lose.

I focused on all the what if I nevers.

It took months of fighting, of standing, of refusing to give way to fear, to teach me how to stand on FAITH.

In so doing, I found SURE footing.

Be encouraged. Stop worrying about those pesky waves. Stay in the boat. You SHALL make it to the other side.

Let’s embrace the journey, eh?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: In case no one has told you today: I love you. So does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

For such a time as this.

We have been chosen.

For such a time as this.

We have been called.

For such a time as this.

We have been challenged.

For such a time as this.

Life is what WE make it. Let’s make it a good one in our corner of the world.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Spread some love today. Spread some joy today. Spread some hope today. Be the awesome wonder that you are.

Beloveds, if you are reading these words, The Universe is calling you. What shall your answer be? Help me spread some love. Share this piece with at least one person, eh

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Move.

I’m ready.

I’m ready to move forward. I just don’t know which direction to face.

Do I go left? Do I turn right? Do I yield? Do I stop and wait?

Ack.

EVERYTHING in me wants to MOVE. My heart wants to go somewhere. She always has. I have been afraid of her. She is afraid of nothing. She is ready to do whatever it takes.

I don’t want to disappoint her. I want to make her proud.

I’m ready to move…FORWARD. I have no idea what’s up ahead. I’m ready to find out.

Are you? It’s time for us to move in 2025. Let’s go, beloveds. We got thangs to do.

Move. FORWARD.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Let’s gooooooooo!!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Give it a rest, beloveds.

I’m having a hard time.

A hard time resting.

A hard time giving myself PERMISSION to rest.

How can you rest when working, working and working some more is all you have ever known?

Being one of 13, us older kids had to babysit and half raise those under us. There wasn’t much room for rest.

Then, having to work to help out the family left precious little time for resting or foolishness like daydreaming or fulfilling ridiculous flights of fancy.

My heart longs to give in to those flights of fancy. The adult in me admonishes me to get back to work. God is silent. Purposely so. Ack!!

What do I DO, beloveds, when everything in me needs the rest but I don’t know how to put the rest down?

My mind goes to shoulds and needtos. My heart says rest. My spirit says work it out as it is tired of being in the middle.

The silence holds wonders if I am courageous enough to be still. If I can be silent. If I can rest.

I find myself restless. What do I DO? The answer appears to be do nothing. Geeeez.

Learning how to do nothing when you’re used to doing so much something is really something!

I must say I really will be glad when this period ends. I’m doing my best to hang on as best as I can. I don’t feel like hanging on today. Yet I will. I have to. So do you.

I have been doing a bit of organizing. I think I will give myself permission to watch some old movies and munch on popcorn. Who wants to join me?

In the mean time, while waiting for a life to change, get some rest.

asking for A Friend,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: What have you been longing to do? Start doing some of those things.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I have questions.

I have questions:

Can I?

Should I?

Will they?

Will He?

Won’t they?

What if…?

Ah, beloveds, questions have rousted me out of fitful dreams. I have so many of them now.

Can’t I?

Would they?

Do they?

How can it?

Do you know? If so, let me know. 2024 left so much loss. 2025 beckons. It winks. It whispers there is much joy to be found there.

Ah, beloveds, what if I can’t?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Keep going. Take your questions with you! We have much too much to do to sit here wondering…

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Leave it there.

Past mistakes.

Leave them there.

In the past.

The past lives only in our minds.

Wrong choices.

You were wrong.

Forgive yourself.

Move on.

Right what you can.

Let the rest, rest in the past.

Leave it there.

Chances not taken.

Those chances can no longer be taken.

Walk away.

Move away from the regret.

Leave it there.

asking for A Friend,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Leave it there. Move on….

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

What if you did?

What if you did?

What an amazing thought!

Try.

See what happens!

What if you DID?!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: What IF we DID, beloveds?! Let’s try. Let’s find out. Some of us WILL!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I love you.πŸ₯°β€οΈ

I have spent the day texting family and friends that I love them.

I just wanted to take a moment to tell you:

I love you, beloveds. I care about your life. I fight for you through prayer, humor, warm thoughts and love.

I hope the best for your life. I intercede for you. U pray comfort for all who mourn.

I ask for joy to be sprinkled through your days.

I ask for God to watch over you.

I ask The Universe to rush your application to the front.

I cheer for you.

I rejoice over your impending success.

I cry with you, in solidarity, over your inevitable failure/disappointment.

I’m fixing to call my twin and yak for about fifty hours…lol. Man, we sure can talk forever about the dumbest things. πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ πŸ€—πŸ€£πŸ₯°β€οΈ

Have a spectacular rest of your day. Share this with at least one person.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: You are SEEN. You are CARED FOR. You are CHERISHED. By God. By me.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Let’s get to filling up the other half of the glass!

I have heard enough of folk declaring the glass is either always half empty or half full.

Let’s get to filling up the other half of the glass!

There are soooooooo many ways and things we can do to change the equation.

What can YOU do to make an impact? It’s going to take ALL of us to make it out of here alive…lol.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: YOU CAN DO IT.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

There is NO quit in us.

I have been watching football for more than 30 years.

I have been astonished to witness several players quit on their team. During the game. After a loss. After the ball was not thrown to them enough.

How sad. Folk have forgotten what teamwork means. Society has forgotten what integrity and supporting one another means.

Folk have been supposedly ” quiet quitting” their jobs. This apparently means folk are giving little to no effort.

Phooey on that! If you don’t care for things going on with your job, TALK to someone. Work it out. If you can’t, find another and give your all.

If you don’t get the ball thrown your way, so what?! Block. Run the route. Your route running STILL affects the outcome of the play!

Don’t pick up your toys and run if you were not chosen to lead the way. Enjoy the camaraderie of the team. Make memories.

In 2025, let’s all choose to get in there and be a light.

Okay, mini rant over…lol.

I have wanted to quit many a day. Life just seemed too damnedably hard. I learned how to push through the hard. I leaned into the hard. I strengthened faith muscles fighting against the hard.

There’s more to this life than we know. Don’t quit. Hang in there a little while longer.

Have you ever considered the reason you have been placed on the sideline, was to help someone standing there? Perhaps it was meant to give you the rest you would never give yourself.

Rest. Then, get about being about it. There just ain’t no quit in us!

being about being about it,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I can do it. So can you…

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!