Filling the other half: There IS a hero in you!

Be your own hero. You have all you need to succeed.

Keep striving. Keep trying. Keep going.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Make the decision that you can. Then, go do it. Simple as that.


One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Exam the failure. Examine your RESPONSE to the failure.

You failed.

It hurts.

I sowwy.

Now, beloveds, it’s time to exam the failure, sans emotions.

Were your motives pure?

Did you do your best?

Did you give all YOU had?

Did you ask for help if help was needed?

If you did those things, move on to WHY things failed. The nuts and 🔩 bolts of the thing.

Do you need more study?

Do you need more time?

Is this something important enough to move forward with?

Is this something needed for your success?

Once you have dissected the failure, exam your RESPONSE to the failure.

Did you become angry with you? Did you berate yourself for the loss?

Were you understanding? Did you recognize that failure comes with the process?

Did you pick up your toys and stomp home? Or, did you exam the failure and proceed to devise another try or approach?

What you DO, beloveds, AFTER the setback,  AFTER the disappointment, AFTER the heartache is the whole ballgame.

You failed. It happens. It’s part of achieving great things. Knowing this helpful.

I am not my failures. Neither are you, yours. We failed. Too bad. Boo hook. There. We have had a cry.

We get up. We move on. Simple as that. Let’s go.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Keep making it happen. These failures are nothing but stepping stones for us! They shall help us to stretch further, to go higher. Let’s go!!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I forgot to be sick.

I was so focused on chasing down my dreams, beloveds, I forgot all about my fever.

I was too busy chasing down knowledge. I was too busy dreaming of touching a billion lives with MY words. I was too busy snatching my dreams into reality.

Focus on your dream, beloveds. All the noise around us is nothing but noise!

Nuff said.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Stay focused on your dreams.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Disappointment: Try another door.

I went to a door.

I knocked on the door.

Said door did not open.

I went to another door.

I knocked on the door.

Said door did not open.

I went to another door.

I knocked on the door.

Said door did not open.

I went to another door.

Before I could knock, said door flung itself open.

Said door just HAD to see what all that knocking was about!

Keep trying. Try as many doors as it takes. ⛺🕍🕌⛪🏰🏯🏦🏢🏡🏠🏚🏘🧱🏛🌏

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Keep knocking. The door opens. Eventually. Or, does it? You’ll never know until you get to knocking.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I have stopped wasting my time. 🗑

I have been spending this day getting my desktop 🖥 organized. Making separate 📂 folders. Putting things in their proper place.

I have 🗑 wasted sooooo much time looking for things from messed up places/spaces!

Life is much too short, beloveds, to be wasting time sifting through lazy and foolishness. Enough!

It’s time to organize. It’s time to prepare. It’s time to study. For me, at least. I can’t speak for others.

What can you get rid of, organize, shift to save yourself some time?

Be about getting about it!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Its amazing how much time is lost being lazy. Yikes!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Don’t give up in the middle.

Don’t give up, beloveds. There is so much more for you to experience.

Take time to celebrate your try. You have done all you know. You have done well.

Take care of that beautiful heart of yours.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I love me some you. As does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

My dreams would not let me sleep in today.

Dreams: Let’s goooooo!!!

*pout*

I was taking a perfectly fine nap, in a perfectly fine bed, having a perfectly fine time.

My dreams got to hollering for me to get up and get a move on. Even lazy was in a hurry. Later had already started the kettle.

Geeezzz.

*yawn*

I figured I may as well pass on the savings….

Let’s goooooooooo, beloveds!

2025 is ours!

Seize these moments!

being about business,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Dreams are calling. Let’s goooooo!!!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You are brave.

Nuff said.

Cut yourself some slack, beloveds. You are doing all you know. ALL you can do is all you can do.

Be encouraged. We got this. God has us all. I love me some you.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

In the meantime.

I’m waiting on God.

I’m waiting for my dreams.

In the meantime?

I’m LIVING.

Life is short. We don’t get to do the day over. We can start over, in the day. But, we don’t get a today mulligan.

What are you doing, beloveds, in your meantime? What are you doing with your meantime?

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: LIVE your life. All the negative foolishness about does NOT have to bring down your day. Shine your light. Live your life. Think for yourself. Grow. Stretch. Reach out. You will be so glad that you did.

In case no one has told you today: I love you. So does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Don’t get scarred by the hard.

We are NOT the hard times we go/grow through, beloveds.

Hare times do NOT force us to become hard, angry and bitter because of what we have gone through.

WE make the choice to become bitter, better, or unbothered by hard times.

I am learning  in real time, that I am the one who chooses to focus on the waves. I am the one who chooses to see/visualize the upcoming shore.

I am the one who chooses to reach out when the toad is especially long, hot and unwieldy.

I am the one to blame myself for not being up to the tests.

I am the one who chooses to give myself extra selfcare and understanding as I make my way through so many storms and hard times.

I have given myself permission to breathe for the rest of this month. Just to breathe. No fretting over or looking for a job. No channel starting. No desperately seeking what in the fresh hell to DO now.

I am just going to breathe. And, enjoy this blog. And, enjoy some coffee. And. Enjoy watching tempura be made and wondering what the world is being happily slurped and enjoyed.

Life is short, beloveds. I just stopped round to encourage someone to keep on LIVING. Not merely existing and worrying about how to pay the grocery bills.

I have no idea what tomorrow holds. I am digging my way out, er, living today…😂

Hang in there. Things really will be okay. Have a good cry if need be. I didn’t know how badly I needed a good cry until I gave myself permission to have a nice one. Man, I cried til my eyeballs fell out. Satisfying. 😁😇😊🥰

Be encouraged.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note:

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!