Note: Thank God for boring times, eh? They are certainly preferable to broke, tornadoes, what in the fresh hells and other thangs life can throw at us….hahahahahahahahahahaha!
Be encouraged. Be sure to laugh today. Asking for A Friend.
Note: Life is going to life. Hard times are going to be hard. Folks are going to hurt your feelings. You are going to do, say, and think some super stupid things that don’t and won’t serve you. So what?
Stop using those things to give you the excuse to comfort eat, quit, complain and all the super dumbsky things we do AND say, when going through things we don’t like.
Yada yada. Nada nada. Tell yourself you are going to get some act right. Then, beloveds, go on ahead and get some act right before God, Life, AND The Universe gives you the swift kick, to your behind, that you richly earned and deserved….hahahahahaahahahahahah. Ow, God, we sowwy…lol.
We got this. Let’s go get it. Let’s love someone. Starting with ourselves.
What do you DO, beloveds, when life makes you make lemon meringue from the lemonade you had to make, from the lemons life handed you?
I had to find out. In real time. Ack. Ick and Heckamiah Jeremiah!…*stamps foot*.
The job I was due to start on my birthday, has been pushed back to start December 1st.
BUT, I have to redo ALL the pre-onboarding stuff and pass all of it, AGAIN, and wait….AGAIN.
Then, I will have one more step to get through and THEN hope this contract will have not been yanked beneath me…again!😳
I admit it. These events through me for a loop. I lied to myself. I told myself I was fine. I attempted to be about being about it.
Then, I got mad.
At God.
At Life.
At The Universe.
At me.
At the stupid, blasted job.
Rinse.
Repeat.
I cried.
I pouted.
I pouted AND cried.
I fussed.
I tossed in the towel.
I tossed myself into bed.
I tossed and turned, in said bed.
Good habits told me to shut up all that noise and get back after it.
So what asked me “so what?”.
Boredom got bored watching me act the fool.
Act right told me to get some act right.
I agreed with boredom and act right and for to being about it!
I just stopped by to encourage someone. Starting with me.
Be encouraged.
Start again as many times as it takes.
Stuff happens. More stuff has happened. So what?! What are YOU going to DO about it, beloveds?
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: We got this. Hard is not here to break you. Hard is here to get across to your hard headed self that you can, that you will, and that you are so much more than you give yourself credit for.
Now, stop pouting at the hand you have been dealt and enjoy the game!
I’m taking the time to do things right, the FIRST time.
I’m done with doing things in a half hazard fashion. I am through with tossing my dreams crumbs whilst I give my all to any and everybody.
I have spent ALL day dreaming, planning and scheduling things to DO. NOW. HERE. IMMEDIATELY.
I am:
Ready.
Steady.
Aiming for all that God, Life, and The Universe had planned and put away for me since I was yet a wee one. Yes, before I was conceived, my me was already in the works! How amazing is that???????!!!!!!!!
I’m taking my time. I no longer feel as though time is running out on me. I’ll have the time to do what needs to be done. Or I hope so. All I can do is do the best I can and see what happens.
Tomorrow is my 57th birthday. Yikes. I don’t know what happened. I’ve been 25 for the last 21 years.
I’m looking forward to seeing what life has to offer me. Ah God, thank you for my life.
I just stopped by to encourage someone to take the time to take all the time you need. Be good to you. Remember that you are loved and that you are not alone.
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: I can’t believe another year is coming on. I look forward to seeing what my birthday will bring.
STOP arguing with life and do the blasted thing already!
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Nuff said, beloveds. Now that we have gotten all the arguing out of the way, we can commence the doing of life, eh?
Please and thanks stop doing the following:
Complaining that you don’t know what to do. Do SOMETHING. Get your feet moving in ANY direction. Life will kick you in the hind end, trust me, if you are going in the wrong direction….hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!
Doubting yourself already. Enough! Geeeez, beloveds. You give yourself little to no credit for any of your successes. Stop doing that. Celebrate your wins. Even the small ones. Especially those. You need the little things to give you the courage to try the big stuff.
Telling yourself dumb lies. Really, beloveds. You have filled your head with all kinds of nonsense that you can’t, you’ll never, you won’t do it right. Yada Yada and nada nada. Holy Crimeny and Apple Jack pancakes! Enough!
You CAN. You WILL. You simply MUST. Heckamiah, beloveds, one of yall may perhaps be holding onto the keys that I have been waiting for for the past 56 years. Give them here! Get your dreams out there so we can experience them. Geeez already!
How else will we grow if we don’t ask? How else will you get there if you don’t go?
Let’s go!
I just stopped by to encourage someone to get up and try again. I know you’re tired. Get up and go anyway. Victory shall be yours. The only way you lose. is if you quit. There is no quit in us. We got too many things to do.
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: The more I live, the less I am asking why. I do tend to wonder a little bit though…lol
Old has been stalking me. I tell old to kick rocks.
I want to play. I want to dance in the rain. Old says I am much too old for that.
Ha!
I look forward to 57 and all I shall do to her and within her.🤔🤣
sneaking up on 57, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: I have spent the last week or so absolutely refusing to allow sad to mess up my coming birthday. I have felt soooooooooo old lately. No idea why.
Then I gotup. I reassessed. I altered my plans. I talk with my sisters. I made a cup of coffee. I moved forward. Simple as that.
What happened was disappointing. Just briefly. It’s like I am playing red light, green light. The light turned red. Simple as that.
Life will handle many setbacks. The trick is what are we going to do with them.
What are you doing with yours?
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: The set back is that the contract I was hired for closed out. I lost that position. The good news is sad. I was transferred to another company, of which I will be starting up in December. I have been looking forward to starting work.
In times past, I would have blamed God. I would have told him he had set me up for failure. I would have told Him that He KNEW I wouldn’t be starting that first job!! Why didn’t You tell me?
Now, I know life is just being life. The delay is for a reason. I reconfigured my calendar. I have more time now. For what? I’ll find out….lol
Be encouraged if you have come upon a setback. Let the setback work for your good. Have an amazing today. Make it amazing.
When was the last time you spoke positive things to your heart, mind, soul, and spirit?
It’s IMPERATIVE to do so on the daily. This world so often tries to poison our spirits with all the negative things that we are supposedly are full of.
Yes, we can all be moronic. Yes, we have all said and done some true ridiculous and not so helpful things.
That’s okay. We were either young and dumb. Or, old and dumb…*shrug*. Alas, beloveds, dumbness knows no rhyme or reason. Stupid besets us all, from time to time.
ALL of us have allowed pride, anger, hurt feelings, and fifty bajillion other reasons to help us act in ways that have not, do not, and shall never serve us.
The trick is acknowledging, owning, accepting responsibility for, and working on correcting, mitigating and doing the best we can to get our act rights acting right, eh?
You are all together lovely. Love yourself. Stop giving yourself such a hard time.
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Be sure to get in some me time today. Don’t let your life be just about worth and chasing a bag. Take a walk. Read a boook. Laugh with a friend. Make a new friend.
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