Category: Writing

Enjoy your now.

Enjoy your now.

Enjoy your present.

Enjoy your moments.

Enjoying your family.

Enjoy your job.

Enjoy your neighbors.

Enjoy the quiet.

Enjoy the noise.

Enjoy being single.

Enjoy being married.

Enjoy being a parent.

Enjoy being an or uncle.

Enjoy being loud.

Enjoy being and quiet.

Enjoy your now, beloveds.

Now is all we have.

Enjoy where you find yourself.

enjoying my now with you,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Life is short. Every moment is precious. Stop wasting time on what you don’t have. Enjoy the process and keep it moving.

Remember how truly amazing YOU are. There is only ONE you in the whole of the world. How awesome is that?!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Don’t be ashamed of your why.

Don’t be ashamed of your why, beloveds.

Why?

Because, your why is YOUR why.

Just because your why is completely different than my why, doesn’t make your why less valued, less seen, less important, less heard.

I have been enjoying watching Van lifers. I find them fascinating. They are in every age, sex, color and money bracket.

Some are living the high life. Some are scraping by, not by choice. Some are living in tiny whatchamacallits. Some are living in huge howonearthdidyoumakethats!

Today, I ran into one who was thinking of giving up because of the judgement of others.

Stay, I shouted at the television!

Do you!

BE you!

😭

She made me more determined to reach as many hearts as I can. If I could reach her, I would tell her this:

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I can’t tell her. I CAN tell you. Every day. Every one.

Yes, the world scoffs at my persistent, clumsy, ugly ashtray try. I offer it anyway.

Keep doing your why. Why? Cuz you are loved and had best believe you are NOT alone. Love someone. Starting with me. In case no one has told you today…I love you. So does He 👑.

Good habits are hard to break.

Good habits are hard to break.

I told myself I was gonna take a few days off from writing. Work has been challenging and I have been super tired.

I found that I had saved up enough time to take a day off with pay.

I have been so focused on hanging in there. And trying to make is meet that I had not realized I had saved up enough time where I could take a day off with pay.

I had used up all my time due to fighting with grief and not feeling the greatest.

I told myself. I would not allow grief to stop me from living my life the best way that I know how.

I kept getting up even when I didn’t want to. I kept doing the dishes even when I didn’t want to. I kept writing even when I didn’t want to. I kept trying even when I didn’t want to.

One morning, I woke to find the day was not quite as  hard as yesterday. I found myself laughing in the day. I found myself reaching out to others in the day. I found myself rejoicing in the day.

Good habits really are hard to break. Good habits will keep going even when you can’t. Good habits will get you out of bed. Good happens will keep you working. Good habits will keep you trying.

Hang in there, beloveds. Don’t worry yourself if you’re having a hard time starting some good habits. Just keep trying. Every day.

Over time, good habits will take over for you. Good habits will slap things out of your hands. Good habits will put on your walking shoes. Good habits will take you for a walk.

Keep going. You got this.

making good habits with you,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Get going!👌🤗🤣😁🥇🙏🤷‍♀️⛏️🔹♥️

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Keep singing in the rain.

Keep singing, beloveds.

In the rain.

Dance in the puddles.

Splash dirty rain all over your bestest clothes.

Laugh.

Splash again.

Rejoice.

Re-engage.

Then, get back in the fight.

The rain is watering your harvest!

Yes, you may add your tears to the rain.

Just don’t quit.

Just don’t lose heart.

Just don’t walk away from your faith.

You got this.

You CAN.

You WILL.

As will I.

be encouraged.

Cassandra

Note: Be encouraged. Am telling you this as I am telling me. Had some hard things happen today. Things I could do absolutely nothing about. Things that directly impact my job.

I refused to allow what I see to affect what I KNOW:

I am loved. I am not alone. God loves me and cares deeply for my life. God fights for me. The Universe cheers for me. My try IS changing things. It’s changing ME.

Keep going. Tell hard ha and keep it moving…

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Keep stacking the days. Building 🏢 YOUR legacy.

Keep sticking the days, beloveds.

You are building 🏢 YOUR legacy.

Don’t worry about how long it’s taking.

Don’t concern yourself about what others think it looks like.

Don’t sweat about what God and Life will do with your legacy.

Just keep building.

Keep trying.

Don’t worry about the outcome.

Embrace the hard.

Laugh at your mistakes. Make as many mistakes as you can.

Cut yourself some slack.

Take time to rest.

Take time to celebrate small victories.

Take time to understand when you hurt over your defeats.

Be sure to take love ones on your journey.

Make new friends.

Reconcile with old enemies.

Remember life is short.

Above all else, beloveds, keep holding yourself accountable.

You can do this thing called life. Everything you need is already inside you.

Let’s go! We have things to do.

doing things,

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note:  Okay, so you are supposed to be doing things, remember. Get going. I love you. Love someone. Starting with you.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Don’t tell, okay?

I don’t know if I can, beloveds.

Don’t tell, okay?

I don’t know if I ever will.

Don’t tell, okay?

My want to does not want to.

Don’t tell, okay?

I’m afraid I won’t always overcome my fears.

Don’t tell, okay?

I don’t know if the love I seek will ever find my heart.

Don’t tell, okay?

I don’t know if I will ever get to my beloved ocean.

Don’t tell, okay?

I wonder if not many days will show up for me.

Don’t tell, okay?

Me: I don’t know if You will. Don’t tell, okay?

God: Okay. That said, I will. Trust me, okay?

Me: K

Cassandra

Note: Sometimes alone is awfully loud. Don’t be afraid to let your alone be loud.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Tell lies to shut up.

I’m fat.

I’m old.

I can’t.

I don’t know how.

Nobody cares.

SHUT UP!!!!!

*Cassandra pops herself upside the head, grabs hold of some act right and moves on with her day”

Nuff said.

Cassandra

Note: I just stopped by to tell you to be encouraged, beloveds. Do NOT allow anything to tell you foolish things like you can’t and you won’t make your dreams come true.

Tell yourself to shut up, then keep it moving. We can? Why? Because we MUST. Nuff said. STOP listening to your foolishness when your act right wants to do nothing more than snack and hide from life.

Remember, it takes but ONE step. Just one. Then another. See!? You got this! As do I. In the meantime, stop being mean to yourself when you fall short. We fall more than we rise. The trick is to keep rising, as does the Phoenix. Look how magnificent your try is growing! Amazing! YOU are amazing. Whether you feel as though you are or not. Our feels lie to us. Be encouraged. As shall I. I love me some you. As does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Geeeeeez!

Geeeez!

God: You rang, beloved?

Me: What in all that is holy, begging Your Pardon, is all this hard doing on my plate today? Geeeeez!…*pout *

God: Why are you asking Me? You asked for your dreams to come true. There they are.

*Cassandra looked upon the mountain of hard with skepticism*

Me: I don’t see anything but hard.

God: Look closer, beloved.

Ah.

Aha!

*Cassandra scrambles off The Father Lap anxious to take on her hard.*

What was in the hard, you ask?

Hey! No cheating! Pick up your own ⛏ ax and get to it. 🔹

doing hard,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Keep going. Some fantastic things can be found in your geeeeeez!…lol.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

I am discouraged. I fight on.

I am discouraged.

I fight on.

Nuff said.

Cassandra

Note: It’s important, imperative even, to acknowledge where you are. It is equally important to advise where you will NOT stay. I refuse to give up. I have drug sick and feels to work with me today. They are not happy. So what? Keep it moving.

If you are having a tough go, snatch hold of your feels and keep it moving. You have things to do. As do I. Let’s go. Don’t give up. Hard is teaching you many lessons. Be encouraged.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Entitled to be lazy.

I find it ironic, beloveds.

Here I am getting things lined up so I can learn how to then post motivational videos and all kinds of well known folks are leaving YouTube in droves.

Over and over I keep hearing folk talk about being burnt out from ‘work’. Alas, their ‘dream job’ of creating content is now just a lot of work.

Who knew?

I was raised to work. And, to work hard and long. This last decade or so have heralded the value of making a living by NOT having to work hard, or not at all.

It seems folks just want to frolic on beaches whilst ‘influencing’ others to want to do the same. Everyone is told how idyllic the world can be IF you are:

Young enough.

Pretty enough.

Wealthy enough.

If you know the ‘right’ people.

If you have the ‘right’ job.

If you have the ‘right’ address.

If you are the ‘right’ skin color.

If you are/have the ‘right’ legacy.

The rest of us can, apparently, turn left, keep working hard and stay kicked to the curb.

Yikes.

Be encouraged, beloveds.

It’s up to YOU to accept whatever label folk will try and slap on you.

I don’t believe all young folk are lazy and entitled.

I don’t believe all older folk are hard working and level-headed.

I think we are all a combination of these things.

We are ALL lazy, at times.

We are ALL entitled feeling, at times.

we are ALL hard working, at times.

We are ALL level-headed, at times.

And, at ALL times, we are…human.

We are entitled to be lazy, beloveds. Yet, we must bear the cost of being lazy. Life is short. I choose to keep my act right acting right.

I choose to try even when I am tired and weary.

I choose to believe everything will be okay.

I choose to love.

I choose to laugh.

I choose to make the best of things.

I choose to encourage as many folks as I can wrap my arms and my heart around.

Be encouraged.

Keep on choosing you.

Keep on trying.

Take care.

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Have an awesome rest of your day. This day was made for you. Embrace all that happens within it. This day is bringing out the best of you and showing you what things need to be tweaked, discarded and cherished.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!