You failed.
It hurts.
I sowwy.
Now, beloveds, it’s time to exam the failure, sans emotions.
Were your motives pure?
Did you do your best?
Did you give all YOU had?
Did you ask for help if help was needed?
If you did those things, move on to WHY things failed. The nuts and 🔩 bolts of the thing.
Do you need more study?
Do you need more time?
Is this something important enough to move forward with?
Is this something needed for your success?
Once you have dissected the failure, exam your RESPONSE to the failure.
Did you become angry with you? Did you berate yourself for the loss?
Were you understanding? Did you recognize that failure comes with the process?
Did you pick up your toys and stomp home? Or, did you exam the failure and proceed to devise another try or approach?
What you DO, beloveds, AFTER the setback, AFTER the disappointment, AFTER the heartache is the whole ballgame.
You failed. It happens. It’s part of achieving great things. Knowing this helpful.
I am not my failures. Neither are you, yours. We failed. Too bad. Boo hook. There. We have had a cry.
We get up. We move on. Simple as that. Let’s go.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Keep making it happen. These failures are nothing but stepping stones for us! They shall help us to stretch further, to go higher. Let’s go!!
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!
- COME SIT AT MY TABLE 🪑❤️🩹
- BELOVEDS, YOU CAN HAVE MY FLOWERS. I DON’T NEED THEM ANYMORE.
- Forgive them, Cassandra, God said to me
- Still In Love
- REAL TALK: DESPISE NOT SMALL BEGINNINGS, BELOVEDS.👘🦺🥾👟🥿👞🩴👢🩰👡⛑️🔌🕯️🔎🖌️🖋️📢
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