EVERY conversation is a gift.

My wombie called me. Woke me up. Yikes!

Initially, I wanted to bop her one. Or two. Or ten…

After discarding such thoughts(would have taken too much effort so early in the morning), I settled into a half asleep, moderately dumb, because of being half asleep, conversation about everything and nothing, all rolled into a ball of mishmash what on earth are we doing up so early talking about THIS/THAT?!

What a wonderful way to start the day. I enjoyed every ridiculous moment!

This made me ponder on how little folk seem to enjoy one another. The world has turned every relationship into a transaction. Don’t let this be your plight. Enjoy the people in your life. Take the time to get to know them better. Take the time to allow them to get to know you better. Take some time for one another.

Relationships are a gift. They are meant to be. We are the ones who turn relationships into transactions. Which means we can take the transactional nature out of those relationships!

People are a gift of God. What kind of gift that is is up to you!

Hahahahahahahahahahaha!! I fear I may have been the booby prize for some!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

Take the time to enjoy someone today. Starting with you.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Um, you are supposed to be spending time with someone. Get going. Unless you’d like to hang out with me! Ooooo, goodie! Let me put on some ☕ coffee. Brb…



One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

You Can Do It!

You can do it, beloveds!

You CAN.

You WILL.

I am rooting for you…

I am speaking blessings over your life…

I am cheering you on…

You can do it. Knowing this, get on out there and DO IT.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: This is your time. It is. Do it afraid if you must. Just go. Start. The way will open before you. You don’t have to know how just yet. Just get going. The Universe will make sure you receive what you need. Trust. Trust your gifts. Trust those sent to help you.

Don’t worry about failing. You will mess up a million times before you get it right. Enjoy the mishaps. Learn from them.

Perfect the knowledge that you will never be perfect. We are about excellence. We are about growth. We are about faith. We are about integrity.

Magnificence takes time. Be one of those few who finds immense satisfaction in doing things right. We are in no hurry. We are about building. We are about lifting up.  I lift up with you. Let’s go! You can do it!

In case no one has told you today: I love you. So does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

True that.


Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: You have greatness within you, beloveds. Get out there and BE great. Your light IS making a difference. You can be THE difference if you will but make yourself available. Be encouraged.

In case no one has told you today: I love you. So does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Keep trying: Chocolate Pudding Fiasco Take Two.😳

Okay, soooooooooooooo, it may or may not be kinda sorta accidentally true that…ehem…

Joke based on an unfortunately true story:

Question: What do you call Chocolate Pudding that was made with entirely toooooooooooooo much 🥛 milk?

Answer: Chocolate shake!…*annoyed pout*.

Don’t judge me, beloveds. At least, I am still trying…

Why, Cassandra? Why, oooooooooo good heavens, WWHHHHYYYY do you keep inflicting these food crimes upon the land?!

Well…hhhmm….

While I figure out why, I stopped by to encourage you to keep making your own food crimes, er, mistakes.

I used to hate, hate, hhaaaaatttteee to make mistakes. Making mistakes made me feel as though I were the mistake. My mistake…lol.

Mistakes are how we learn. Making mistakes and learning from them helps us to grow.

So I ended up making Chocolate Shake instead of Chocolate Pudding?! So what? It was absolutely delicious.

Find the joy in your mistakes, beloveds. Have fun trying new things. 😂 Laugh at the blunder. Learn. Keep it moving. Rinse. Repeat.

Have a glorious day creating your 🔮 future! What you do today is contributing towards your future. This can be a good or not so good thing. Be sure your contributions are POSITIVE, filled with integrity, laced with love, and full of joy.

asking for A Friend,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note:

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

The Chocolate Pudding Fiasco.

Okay.

Sooooooo…

There is a small possibility that I may have perchance kinda sorta may have committed a small food crime, once again.

I wanted to make some chocolate pudding.

I know. I know. I told myself I would follow directions this time. I maybe, perhaps, didn’t quite follow directions again.

The Box said to add three cups of cold water along with the package of chocolate pudding mix. I found a half cup. Guess how many of those I used?! You guessed it. I used three. which meant I only put in one and a half cups of milk.

Instead of making putting, I ended up making chocolate paste!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

I have been enjoying my food experiments. I am wondering what other food catastrophe I can make this week…

I stopped by to check on you. Hopefully, I’ve given you a laugh today. Don’t let this day in without you getting in a few more laughs. Reach out to someone. Encourage someone today. I love someone today starting with you.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: This piece made me laugh. I hope it made you smile. Life is much too short to be spending all day fretting and worrying. We are heading into a new year. Be sure to take optimism with you into next year. Dream big. Remain joyful. Remain faithful to your dreams. Begin again as many times as you need to. Be good to you.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Your hard time is not meant just for you.

Your hard time is not meant just for you, beloveds.

Your hard time is here, in part, so you can leave a bit of a treat for someone else as you make your way through your hard or dark place.

I have learned so many things through this hard time. I’m trying my best to give away as many tools and lessons that I’ve learned along the way.

I have learned how important it is to reach out to others for support. I’ve learned that if you don’t have a support system to create one!

I have learned to ask for help. Loudly!

I have learned to love out loud. Lustily!

I have learned to laugh through my tears.

I have learned to be content with nothing..

I have learned how to lose friends with grace.

I have learned how to love me when I have been at my most unlovable.

I am still learning all these painful lessons every day. I am grateful for the hard. The hard is helping me keep on my toes.

Your hard time is not just for you. Your hard time helps you create your story. Share your hard. Let someone else know that they can make it. You might as well make your hard work something!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: It helps to share hard with others. It helps them. It helps you. We all need each other. Be encouraged today. Be sure to get some joy out of your day. Do the best you can, not to focus on the hard. That can be hard..lol. I crack myself up.



One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

New Beginnings: FIGHT for your dreams.

It feels like all I have been doing is fighting lately. Trying to keep a positive attitude. Fighting with lazy. Duking it out with fear.

I have been fighting my way out of bed. I have been fighting through emotions. I have been fighting with everything and everyone to keep my dreams intact.

Fighting so hard is exhausting. I almost wanna say, forget about it and walk away. I can’t. My dreams mean too much to me. I want to see what they look like. Fulfilled!

I shall keep fighting. How about you? Keep giving it everything you have. We shall win in the end.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I wanted to quit many times. I refuse to quit. the battle is one or lost in the mind. I tell myself to keep going. I tell myself to be encouraged. I tell myself to keep standing on faith and not fear. I keep telling myself the truth. I can and I will. So will you.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

It won’t be because I didn’t try!

Things may not work out.

It won’t be because I didn’t try!

I may not make it there.

It won’t be because I didn’t try!

The situation may turn out to be a disaster.

It won’t be because I didn’t try!

The circumstances may have turned hopelessly wrong.

It won’t be because I didn’t try!

Everyone may have given up on the project.

It won’t be because I didn’t try!

The relationship may have not worked out.

It won’t be because I didn’t try!

The friendship may have ended.

It won’t be because I didn’t try!

I may have lost everything.

It won’t be because I didn’t try!

Life happens, beloveds. Good things. Bad things. Tough things. Unfortunate things. Fortunate things. Too many things to name here.

Whatever happens, beloveds, don’t allow yourself the victim role. WE determine how to respond with what happens.

WE determine what we shall DO with what happens. WE determine what our attitudes shall be with what happens.

Don’t allow yourself ONE excuse this coming year! Enough of that!

If you lose, so be it. Just be certain you haven’t lost because you never tried!

Get up! Get going! You’ve got thangs to do in 2025!

So what things didn’t work out as you thought this past year. So what! Get over it! Get over yourself!

I tell myself this EVERY day! Get over yourself, Cassandra! You’ve got thangs to do THIS year.

We CAN, beloveds! We WILL!

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I am looking forward to 2025. 2025 has NO idea what I am fixing to do within it!

Keep moving FORWARD, beloveds. Use these last days to leave 2024 IN 2024. Don’t take the mistakes with you. Don’t take old fears with you. Don’t take old beliefs with you.

Deal with YOU in 2024 so you can enjoy a fantastic 2025. Be done with holding YOU back. Forgive yourself for all you have done or not done. Life is much too short for you to continue lambasting yourself for your current position.

Be encouraged. You ARE on the right path. Yes, it has taken much longer than you had hoped. Yea, you have gotten in your way more than was helpful.

Yet, you fight on. Celebrate your try. I admire you. You keep going no matter what. Know that you are seen. Your efforts SHALL amount to something. They already have.

I DARE you to pursue your dreams relentlessly. Come on. We have thangs to do.

In case no one has told you today: I love you. So does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

Whatcha Doin?

Good morning, beloveds. Me and good habits wandered by just to check on you:

How are you?

Have you worked on your dream?

Are you cutting yourself more slack?

Are you resting?

Have you laughed today?

Here, let me give you a bit of  laugh from my trusty bag of laughs…

Okay, you good now?

Be encouraged. Life is goof. Even when it’s hard.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Have an amazing today!

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!

AFTER you finish.

AFTER you finish.

Ask yourself if you have given your all.

AFTER you finish.

Ask yourself if did your best.

AFTER you finish.

Ask yourself if you can live with the results.

If you have done these things, beloveds, keep it moving!

You gave your all.

You did your best.

You can live with the results.

Folk will either receive or reject your try. So be it, beloveds. Ours is just to try. We pass on the results of our try to God, Life and The Universe. Not our problem what happens next.

STOP paying rent to the universe! Meaning, you do NOT have to come bearing gifts to be loved! You ARE loved, beloveds. My heart aches for every soul who is secretly believing they are only enough if they DO enough. Lies!

You are a priceless soul, beloveds. You ARE!

Take care today. Give yourself space and room to grow.

asking for A Friend,
Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I love you. So does He.

One step.

One step.

One step.

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU!