Category: Writing

Go for it: What do YOU want?

YOU!

YOU?!

What do YOU want?

STOP trying to be, have and do what others want you to be, have and do.

This is YOUR life, beloveds. The mistakes you make, at least make them trying to make YOUR dream come true.

This world could give two hoots about your dreams and will ONLY respect you as you DEMAND to be seen, heard, loved and cherished.

STOP wasting your time on folks who have no time for you! You are priceless. You do NOT have to spend another second treating your heart like a second class citizen.

STOP THAT!

Believe me, I have had to tell myself this. I STILL tell myself this! I am DONE making excuses for those who have ghosted my heart and dismissed my dreams.

Kick rocks! I no longer have to pay rent, to this world, trying to buy a bit of love and care.

I am loved.

I am. By One, who thinks I am the bomb.com!

What do YOU want?

The Universe is waiting to walk with you and help you do, have and be.

Get going!

Hurry!

The Answer is waiting for you…

cheering you on,

Cassandra

#HereForIt

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Okay, so you are supposed to be out and about living your life. Whatcha still doing here?!

One step.

One step.

One step.

Don’t give up on your try!

Don’t give up on your try! https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxBDyxBuWsP/?igshid=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Beloveds, don’t give up on your try!

Not just yet. You are growing. You ARE!

Discouragement is just a sign you are almost there!

Keep going.

You CAN, beloveds, and you WILL!

How do I know?

Cuz, The Universe…hehe…going to let you find out for yourself!

Be encouraged.

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

A Friday funny.

😂 Hahahahahahaha!

Have an awesome and amazing weekend. I shall do a heart ♥ check, tomorrow.

I have plans to watch 🏈 football until I pass out. Rinse. Repeat. 🥰

content,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Please love on you, this weekend. You don’t have to wait for others to show you love. Do something that will make you fall out laughing. Then, do that some more!

Give me more.

Give me more, says The Universe.

Give me more, says Life.

Give me more, says God.

More of what, I ask.

Give me more, says my heart.

Give me more, says my mind.

Give me more, says my spirit.

More what, I ask, yet again.

GIVE ME MORE!!

These words, reverberating everywhere.

I want to do, more.

I want to be, more.

I want to give, more.

It’s odd in that I am not asking for more to be given, to me. Not anymore. The closer I walk, with Life, with The Universe, with God, with my heart, the less I have a need to have THINGS to make me feel safe, loved and protected.

Ah.

Aha!

Give me more.

I shall try.

giving more,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Give more. More what? Ah. Aha! Keep asking, beloveds…

Heart ♥ check: Now what?

Now what?

After you have given your all, to all.

Now what?

After you have shared all you know, with all.

Now what?

After you have done all you know, for all.

Now what?

What of YOU, beloveds?

You are so much more than what you give, what you do and what you have.

I have been asking myself these questions, this morning.

I reached out, to folk.

I encouraged, the whole of the world.

I checked, on a friend.

I yakked, with my twin.

Then, there was…

Silence.

I can feel The Universe…waiting?

For what, my heart asks.

Ah.

Aha!

MY heart is asking!

For ME!

Perhaps, for the first time??!

I want to SHARE my life with folk who love life.

Healing can be lonely. The more healing, the more I find myself wanting to connect with the wide world.

Anywho, just checking on your heart ♥ as I wished someone would check on mine, today.

I’m not sad. Just wishing I had folk to come outside and play with me. I have coloring books and 🖍 crayons.

Be encouraged.

Remember:

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Dream out loud.

Dream out loud. https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cwr7fSIObzJ/?igshid=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Be encouraged.

Cassandra

Don’t be afraid to change corners.

I love my Cali King!

It’s HUGE!

I can stretch out, in ANY corner!

Ah!

I am a creature of habit. Or at least I used to be. Rather, I am trying hard NOT to be, a creature of habit!

In my lovely, lovely HUGE, Cali King, I find myself flopped precisely in the middle. Oceans of corners and sides, just waiting to be enjoyed.

Yet, as creature of habit, I found myself flopping, dead center, leaving oceans of corners and sides, undiscovered and unexplored.

*sigh*

One day, my heart whispered for me to move over, just a smidge, just a tad, just a mere inch, from dead center.

I moved.

Just a titch.

Just a hair.

Just a breath shy of dead center.

I wasn’t ready, you see, to move a whole…*gasp*…smidge, away from dead center!😳

Yikes!

Egads!

However, I COULD try, a twitch, a hair, a breath.

I moved.

Ah.

Aha!

I found the world had NOT, moved on it’s axis. The world still stood! A wonderful rest was had by the whole world. Okay, maybe just me but still.

After that, I moved some more. I flopped this way and thataway. I flopped sideways. I clung perilously, at corners edge. I flopped on EVERY corner!

Now, I make a habit of having no particular flopping habit. Life is awesome when you take some of the limiting habits, from your life.

Yes, positive habits are imperative. I’m talking about habits built just because we ALWAYS did this. We ALWAYS went there. We ALWAYS sat here. We ALWAYS go there.

Why?

Great question! Keep asking!

Why do YOU do some of the things you do?

Oftentimes, we do things for no other reason then what fam does, what friends did, what peers do.

From time to time, it’s good to take stock of our why.

Why, are we continuing, to do this?

Why, are we choosing, to believe that?

Why, did we say no?

Why, won’t we say yes?

You may need to move over, just a titch, just a smidge, just a hair, on order to refocus, re imagine, re invigorate, your life and surroundings.

I feel good about the life I am building. Yes, from time to time I need to flop, in a different corner. But, I am having fun exploring different corners of my life.

Enjoy your life, beloveds. Enjoy new corners. Enjoy flopping this way and that way!

flopping with you,

Cassandra

Note: Whatcha still doing here? You posed to be flopping around somewhere. Get a 😁 going.

In the meantime: Transition.

Transition.

Transition, can feel like a four letter word.

Transition, is ZERO fun.

Transition is:

Maddening.

Frustrating.

Scary?

Feels like we are:

Dangling.

Falling.

Failing.

Failing to:

Land.

Win.

See.

Know.

Do.

We are unable to DO, in the middle of the transition!

Blast it all, we just want to DO!

Transition…

*sigh*

It is during the transition, in the meantime, it’s crucial not to get in the way!!

Breathe.

Rest.

Use the time, to pack your essentials and fave things.

Use the time…

Ah.

Aha!

The Cook IS preparing the meal 🍴!

Wait.

Wait, patiently.

In the meantime?

Enjoy the breadsticks!

🤷‍♀️😂

waiting patiently,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: Be encouraged. Cut yourself some slack. Your dream is around the corner. Which one? Aha! Keep asking. Keep dreaming.

Thanks moms!

Thanks moms! https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwqDYxmOIL_/?igshid=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Thanks moms for all you do and have done to raise your children.

You are more than a caretaker.

Be encouraged.

Remember:

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Thanks dads!

Thanks dads! https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwqCvk8OvRB/?igshid=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Thanks dads for all you have done to raise your children the best you know how.

You are more than a wallet. We honor your try.

Be encouraged.

Remember:

You are loved.

You are NOT alone.

Keep on being…YOU

Cassandra