I stopped by to let you know that I love you and care about your life, beloveds. I said a nice prayer for you. I have asked for blessings, love, and protection over your life.
I have asked for every wound to be healed. I have asked for every need to be made. This is the say the Lord has made, as the Bible says. Let us rejoice and be glad in it. We get this one day to make as many memories as we can.
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: I love you. So does He. I woke today with gratitude. Life is good. Even when it’s hard. Don’t let the hard keep you from seeing the blessings in today. Be dn
There is a rash of folk who are living their lives pretending.
They are pretending to work out, pretending to be rich, pretending to be entrepreneurs. How sad.
We are so much more than what we do or what we have.
Just be YOU, beloveds. You are one of one. You are unique.
You do NOT have to be someone or something you are not.
It’s okay to age. It’s okay to be young. It’s okay to have little. It’s okay to have lots.
You don’t have to live in a mansion. It’s okay to work a blue collar job.
We are ALL needed. In EVERY space.
I just stopped round to encourage folk to be themselves. The older you get, beloveds, the more you will understand that life is much too short to be concerned with the superficial.
Take care.
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: You don’t have to be any one other than who you are. Keep being the beautiful person that you are.
There are times you have to walk alone. There are times when no one will be willing to go with you. There will be times when you don’t want to go at all. Keep going.
My closest friend moved away. Right when I have needed him the most. Life can be cruel like that sometimes.
There will be times in our lives when no one will believe in our journey. Still, we must travel our own path. Keep moving forward. continue to build on your legacy. Your labor is not in vain.
Take care of your precious heart today.
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: My lonely has never felt more lonely. I wonder what God is up to? Keep going. Even if you must go alone. You shall meet many on the journey!
Enjoy this time in your life. We get this one shot. Make this week amazing.
He wanted EVERYTHING to be perfect. We were expected to get ALL As in school. An A- minus was not acceptable.
I played basketball in high school. I was expected to be a starter. I was expected to make varsity as a sophomore/junior. I ended up quitting basketball. It stopped being fun. It is my one true regret.
I was good enough, beloveds, to have kept working towards a scholarship. This next part is not easy to talk about. Bear with me, it gets better towards the end.
During my high school years, my mom’s boyfriend did things an adult ought not do to a child. My father did not defend me. His literal words, when asked by me years later in why he had not stood up or spoke up for me was “It wasn’t worth going to jail over”.
This, of course, left me feeling worthless like a failure, like I wasn’t worth any effort. Even from me.
This thinking bled into every area of my life. I stopped believing in me. I stopped fighting for me. My dad wouldn’t. Why should I?
My grades tanked. I quit basketball. I withdrew into myself. I made a bargain with God that if He left my wounds alone, I would spend my days encouraging others so they would not give up on themselves.
Ha! That’s what God said. He set out to help me heal and to let me know He would ALWAYS:
Choose me.
Love me.
Fight for me.
Stand next to me.
Many years later, I learned how to love me some me. Unspeakable things happened to me. My dad was unspeakably cruel in what he had said to me. That didn’t make me a failure. It just meant dad failed me in that moment. It took years to not see God, My Father, as how my earthly father had been.
I say all that, beloveds, to say this:
Things happen. Sometimes, unspeakable things happen. Sometimes, unspeakably hard things happen. We CAN over come those things. We CAN heal from those things.
We are NOT the unspeakable things that has happened to us. We can lead full and healthy lives.
I find great joy in encouraging others. Not because of what I have gone through. But, because it’s what I do and part of who I am.
In not thriving in spite of what happened. I’m thriving because I make the choice to show up every day. I’m thriving because I work on myself EVERY day. Whether I feel like it or not.
I just stopped by to encourage folk to lift up your head. You do NOT have to carry guilt and shame around because of the past or if you are going through something presently.
Be encouraged. You will get beyond some things you thought you will never survive or get over. You will. Be encouraged, this day.
Have an amazing today.
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: I did not mean for this piece to turn in the direction it did. Someone needed these words. I’m here best I can be. Reach out if you could use a shoulder. Stop carrying around secret pain. You don’t have to bleed to death in the middle of a crowd. ttnette37@yahoo.com
Note: There are just times where my heart is soooo full of love for God it spills everywhere. Pay me no mind. I don’t mind.
I’m praying for everyone today. Even the nonbelievers. Especially for them. I don’t blame them. Folk use the name of God for every purpose except for intended: Love. Simple as that.
Be encouraged this day. You are loved and not alone. Keep moving FORWARD. Keep looking UP.
I’m trying to treat my heart with more care. I’m trying to be gentle with me. I’m trying to give myself the time that I need to grow. I’m trying to give myself the space that I need to learn.
I’m trying to be okay with the fact that I’m trying and….
Be gentle with yourself. You are doing the best you can. Let that be enough.
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Be good to you. You are doing your best Let this be enough.
I am coming up on the one year anniversary of the tornado 🌪. I’m tired of thinking about it. Tired of dealing with the aftermath.
I’m tired, drat it all. I’m tired of blaming myself for not being stronger “sooner”. I’m tired if blaming God for not having acted “sooner”. I’m tired of blaming Life for lifing.
I am NOT strong. Thankfully, I don’t have to be. I just stopped by to encourage someone who is out there kicking themselves for not having done this that or the other.
I am here to encourage those who are kicking themselves for having done this, that or the other!
None of us knows how we will respond when life happens. We do what we can. We MUST, beloveds, give ourselves permission and room to be:
Wrong.
Afraid.
Doubtful.
Then, we make the decision and be okay with not having been okay in THAT moment. The moment when everyone said you should be over THAT by now.
Things takes time. Healing takes time. Life takes time. In the meantime, it’s okay to not be 💪 stronger quite yet.
I know I have posted a bit today. I have needed these words just to get through these storms today. I remind myself this storm is not last year’s storm. There is NOT a tornado in the yard.
As you go through your hard, remember you are NOT where you used to be! Be encouraged. 0
asking for A Friend, Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: I promised myself I would encourage someone when I was having a truly disheartening day. Be encouraged. This too shall pass. Geez, tho
