I love this quote!
I have spent a lifetime, beloveds, hauling around weight that never belonged to me. I’m sure you have, as well.
I am working hard to put down as much weight as I can get to.
Not working has soooooooooo been not working for me. I have to find another way to make myself valuable…
Ah.
Aha!
I AM value. No matter what I do or don’t do. I DO matter. No matter that I am currently not working.
Was working, since I was 14, is what made me valuable and worthwhile?
Am I no longer valued or valuable until I can again pay my way?
Ack! It’s hard confronting facts and facing them.
We have all been weighted down by/with the expectations of others. By our own expectations.
I think we are all much too hard on ourselves and on one another. The longer I live, the more I learn that I know very little about a lot of things.
I’m working on ME. I’m pointing the finger back at ME. I am expecting ME to continue taking the high road. I’m encouraging ME to keep on moving FORWARD.
I have been under the weather for the past few days. I have things I have been wanting to do. I’m trying to cut myself some slack.
Put down the weight, beloveds. We don’t HAVE to run ourselves ragged. We do NOT have to drag around other folk’s feelings and work. We are NOT responsible for how other folks live their lives. Other folk are NOT responsible with how we choose to live our lives.
Things truly will come out in the wash. All we need to do is our best. Period. The outcome is not up to us.
Uh, oh! The bathroom calleth. Again.😳🤷♀️
Take real good care of your tender heart.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Back away from the guilt. Lift up your head. Don’t be ashamed of your life. You have done your best.
The mistakes you have made are just that: Mistakes. So what? Fix what you can. Mitigate what you can’t fix. Apologize to both parties. Move on. How LONG will you keep bearing weight for things looooonnnggg past?
Punishing yourself today for things done a million yesterday’s ago serves and saves no one. Get going. You have thangs to do.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!
- THE HAND FROM HEAVEN ✋🏾☁️🧻🤣
- COME SIT AT MY TABLE 🪑❤️🩹
- BELOVEDS, YOU CAN HAVE MY FLOWERS. I DON’T NEED THEM ANYMORE.
- Forgive them, Cassandra, God said to me
- Still In Love
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