Do you love them enough?

Do you love them enough?

Will you love them even when you think they are wrong?

Will you keep your arms open when everything within you wants to close yourself off because you are angry with them?

Will you love them even when their choices are not your choices?

Do you love them enough to let them:

Fail?

Fall?

Lose?

Part of loving someone is living with their choices. It is their life.

I am currently fighting with my wombmate. She is currently fighting with me. Neither of us are winning.

I had to decide if I loved her enough to continue fighting with her not against her.

I do

I will.

Relationships are not easy. We can’t run each other’s lives. All we can do is walk together and grow together in love. All we can do is tell each other the truth. All we can do is receive the true from the other person.

Life is short. Don’t allow pride or hurt feelings or walls to keep you from those that you love.

I admit I wanted to power all weekend. Add no life is short so I kept my pouting short. O k i’m still pouting but at least I called and talked to her. I love her. She is my twin sister. She is also a dear friend.

You can say I am attempting to use this piece as an attent to get you all on my side. Of course I am. It’s my blog. Just kidding sis. I love you.

Keep going beloveds even when it hurts. Especially when it hurts. Remember that you are load and that you are not alone.

being a dumb twin atm,

Cassandra

#YourLifeMattersToMe

Note: I did not want to take the high road in the argument with sis. I also did not want to be right just because I thought I was right. I split the middle and went to make chicken salad of which I will be talking about in my next piece.😁

2 thoughts on “Do you love them enough?

  1. It’s important to remember that loving someone means accepting them for who they are, even when you disagree or don’t see eye to eye.

    Relationships can be challenging, and it’s not always easy to navigate through disagreements and conflicts. However, it’s crucial to keep the lines of communication open and to approach each situation with love and understanding. Taking the high road and choosing not to let pride or hurt feelings get in the way of your relationship is a sign of maturity and growth.

    It’s also essential to remember that life is short, and we should cherish the time we have with our loved ones. Don’t let petty arguments or disagreements keep you from those who matter most to you.
    What I mean is , loving someone means accepting them for who they are, even when it’s difficult. It means keeping your arms open, even when you want to close yourself off. It means walking together and growing together, even when it hurts. Don’t let pride or hurt feelings keep you from those you love. Life is short, and every moment matters.

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    1. Thank you. Such powerful words. I had to acknowledge that MY pride was getting in the way of accepting HER choices. Glad I told pride to kick rocks. Life is short. Is soooooo important to value the relationship over being right. I was right sis…lol

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