Use it ALL, beloveds.
And, I mean ALL of it!
The bad things that happens to you.
The bad folk that happens into your life.
The frustrating things.
The hard things.
The lonely things.
The upsetting things.
The losses.
The wins.
The embarrassing things.
The impossible to get over things.
Use ALL of these things as β½ fuel/motivation as you:
Carry on.
Climb higher.
Reach further.
Go longer.
Push onward.
Run faster.
Walk slowly.
Maintain.
Sustain.
Look up.
Reach.
Stretch.
Grow.
Go.
Use it ALL, beloveds, to help keep you:
Humble.
Loving.
Unique.
Prayerful.
Spirit-led.
Life affirming.
God seeking.
Joyful.
Resourceful.
Hopeful.
Yes, beloveds, use it.
ALL of it.
For believers, the bible says that ‘All things work together for the good..’. For non-believers, this is STILL true, IF you all ALL things to work for your good.
How?
By sifting through the hard and extracting the lessons, the tears, the laughter, the admonitions, the encouragements and all the millions of goodies to be found in hard times and places.
I no longer curse the hard. Okay, sometimes I fuss at it…lol. I am learning, slowly/agonizingly to embrace ALL that happens and work to ensure my attitude is in the right place.
I peeled myself out of bed, slowly, and made myself take out the trash. Taking out the trash, now, is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo discouraging/depressing.
I have to walk amongst all the debris/destruction of the long gone tornado…*sigh*. Yesterday, I just didn’t have the heart, beloveds. I gave myself the day. To cry. To lament. To beg God to take this hard from me. He didn’t. I understood.
So, today, I arose and took out the trash.
I have also FINALLY been completely 100 with all my fam/friends. Before, I sugar-coated things so they wouldn’t ‘feel so bad’ about me being, here, in this rubble, on the daily.
I was sooooooooooooo focused on how THEY may/could/would feel, I had completely dismissed how I was actually feeling. Geeeeeez, Cassandra.
Don’t get on me too badly, beloveds. You, I suspect, have and DO do the same, dontcha? Sure you do and have.
We are sooooooooooooooo very busy trying to earn love/validation/care/attention etcetera that we supplant our own needs with those of others.
Why?
In hopes we are not being ‘too needy’ or ‘too much of a burden’ or all the other ridiculous lies we have been sold and bought from the very pits of hell itself.
No more!
Now that I have been completely honest, I have been able to begin the process of beginning the process of beginning the process of beginning. Again.
Yesterday, I cried.
Today, I smile.
Why?
Because, I am loved and I am NOT alone.
It has been a real struggle, beloveds, to force myself to write these words. Not because I don’t believe them. I do. It’s just a struggle because EVERYTHING has been a struggle. Since the damnable tornado, every second feels like a hundred years of whatnow, what in the fresh hell is THIS, and how in the world am I going to make its.
Yet, beloveds, I can truly say I am blessed. Still. Still. Amazing. Who woulda thunk it?
Be encouraged.
Use what you have.
ALL of it.
This time has NOT come to break you. You SHALL come forth as gold. Trust God. Trust the process. Trust your gifts and skills. Trust YOU.
Beloveds, you are and have been so used to being dismissed that you have begun to dismiss you. Don’t do this.
Haters are going to hate. Love them and leave them to their devices. Pray for them and keep it moving. Don’t waste your life trying to convince folk you are this, that and the other.
Be, beloveds. Simply be and what what The Universe shall do to, through and FOR you.
Huh?
Whazzat?
Oh!
I have to go, beloveds. The Father is waiting for me with a nice pot of coffee and some Double Chocolate Chip Muffins! You are welcome to join me. Hurry, Craig is coming for the snacks…lol….love you, Craig. You have been much on my heart today. Thanks for all you do for the folk in your life. Thanks, Mags. Just cuz. Your comments give me hope that maybe this old lady CAN and WILL.
Thanks to all the newbies. Yall are welcome and I have been praying for you ALL day. Thanks to all the old-bies. Yall keep me encouraged, on the daily. I look at your blogs and gain strength from them. I can’t let myself start with the commenting as good grief I would yammer forever. Yall check out Silent Knight as the pieces are eclectic and will have you swooning and thinking. Don’t get me started on Britta! I have to save her for delicious treat on weekend mornings!
Take care, all. Keep sharing your heart. You HAVE been seen, heard and loved. Your time WILL come. Greatness takes a while, dontcha know?
using it all,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Okay, so, um, Mags, what the world are you still doing here? Craig, put down the muffin and back away slowly! The rest of yall are supposed to be out there loving the world, being about it and using it ALL. Get going.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on beingβ¦YOU!

Sometimes you just gotta have a snack and forget what’s happening around you, even if it’s only for a few moments.
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Aren’t you telling the truth. I am deciding on a Snickers Bar or some mini chocklit donuts. Which should I choose? Asking for a friend.
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Definitely donuts
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Great minds think alike! I went with β and π©. π₯°
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Perfect combo.
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