I start my new job soon. Yay.
Knowing this, I have been resting. A lot. Too much for some…lol.
Still, for the first time, EVER, I have given myself permission to take this time. For ME.
Today, wombie called. I only had 2% of energy. In the past, I would have grumpily given her time.
I would have harrumphed my way through a conversation I really didn’t want to have, being as I was tired and wanting MY space.
I have been teaching myself to be more considerate. I realize that I had, in the past, used fatigue as an excuse to not be all in a conversation or situation.
I don’t do that anymore. At least, I try not to. Why am I telling on myself?
Well, I recognized sis just wanted to hang out and have a bit of company. HER heart needed to be tended to.
Does that mean that MY need for stillness was not just as important as her need for company? Tough question.
We both talked about this: her need for company. My need for time alone.
We compromised. I gave her some tired moments, whilst making a coffee date for the next day.
We both ended the conversation satisfied.
Life is short. If someone reaches out, beloveds, spare them a few moments. Give them a bit of your love. They reached out because they needed YOU.
This is not a lecture so much as an entreaty for us to remember the importance of life.
If you are too busy to give a wee bit of yourselves to those you love, perhaps you are a smidge too busy, eh?
I’m trying to impart something. My heart is trying to share something of which I am just slowly beginning to grasp. If anyone knows what that is, let me know.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: Love one another.🥰🤗😁
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!


Wonderful post. Hugs from us dafthermits in the Scottish Highlands
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