When you SHOULD be resting, tell should to shut up.
Should ALWAYS has something to say.
Should, however, is forever getting you to do things you never wanted to, did not intend to do, wasn’t even considering doing.
Should brings nothing but guilt, shame, and ultimately fatigue with it.
If you have decided to rest, rest. If you have chosen to be still, be still. If you have considered and believe it’s time to let it go, let it go.
Should oft times comes from the expectations of others. Yet, they have not considered. Don’t let THEIR judgements and expectations force you into a corner of shoulds.
Do as you please. Do when you are ready. I can’t tell you how many lectures I have gotten on how I should grieve the loss of my twin.
Only another twin can understand what being a twin is like. Only another twin can truly speak to where I am. Sure wish I had one to talk to. I think I may reach out on Tiktok or somewhere to find one who understands.
Be encouraged.
asking for A Friend,
Cassandra
#YourLifeMattersToMe
Note: You can do so much more than you give yourself credit for.
One step.
One step.
One step.
You are loved.
You are NOT alone.
Keep on being…YOU!
- COME SIT AT MY TABLE 🪑❤️🩹
- BELOVEDS, YOU CAN HAVE MY FLOWERS. I DON’T NEED THEM ANYMORE.
- Forgive them, Cassandra, God said to me
- Still In Love
- REAL TALK: DESPISE NOT SMALL BEGINNINGS, BELOVEDS.👘🦺🥾👟🥿👞🩴👢🩰👡⛑️🔌🕯️🔎🖌️🖋️📢
Why Can't I Be Loud?! 
Should is way too loud. I’m certainly bad for not taking the time to chill properly because I SHOULD be doing one of a million other things. Ugh! Exhausting. Xx
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